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Uma Subramanian « Une tresse fantaisiste de la volonté et de l’humanité, elle est l’initiative et le courage. Uma Subramanian est fondatrice et codirectrice chez Aarambh India (premier portail en ligne de l’Inde contre les abus sexuels et l’exploitation sexuels). Ici, UMA suggère pourquoi il est essentiel de nourrir un écosystème qui parle de sexe et de sexualité sans violence, honte, moralité ou criminalisation. Auteur. Entrepreneur social. Mère. Cette conférence a été donnée lors d’un événement TEDX en utilisant le format TED Conference mais organisée indépendamment par une communauté locale. En savoir plus sur https://www.ted.com/tedx (tagstotranslate) tedxtalks ».
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Comprendre la masturbation : un défi pour transformer votre sexualité
Mettre un terme à la masturbation représente un véritable défi pour de nombreuses personnes, indépendamment de leur genre. Bien qu’elle soit souvent perçue comme un acte normal et sain pour comprendre sa sexualité, elle peut devenir un problème sérieux lorsqu’elle impacte négativement le travail, les relations ou la santé psychologique.
Mesurer les gains d’un arrêt efficace
Présenter les changements bénéfiques dans les relations sociales
Les relations de couple deviennent plus satisfaisantes, avec une plus grande complicité émotionnelle et physique.
Expliquer le trajet vers une joie persistante
En diminuant la dépendance, des bénéfices à long terme peuvent se manifester dans la vie personnelle, professionnelle et sociale.
Raconter le cheminement vers une santé mentale renforcée
Lorsque l’on cesse, l’énergie augmente, l’humeur s’améliore et la concentration devient plus claire.
Identifier les raisons de l’élargissement de cette pratique
Étudier l’influence de l’isolement et du désir
L’isolement et un désir non comblé, que ce soit dans une relation amoureuse ou dans la vie personnelle, sont des moteurs de cette pratique.
Analyser les éléments psychologiques et émotionnels
Le stress, l’anxiété et l’insatisfaction dans d’autres aspects de la vie peuvent favoriser cette pratique excessive.
Analyser les conséquences de la pornographie sur les comportements
La pornographie agit comme un facteur clé. Elle stimule souvent la masturbation et peut déformer l’image de la sexualité.
Construire un plan d’action pour rompre avec cette habitude
Présenter des stratégies pour prévenir les rechutes
- Désactiver les accès aux contenus pornographiques : Utilisez des outils de contrôle parental ou des bloqueurs de sites.
- Éviter l’accès à la pornographie : Installez des outils de filtrage pour bloquer l’accès aux contenus explicites.
Faire ressortir la nécessité de l’entraide sociale
- Voir un sexologue : Ce professionnel peut fournir des stratégies adaptées à vos besoins. (voir à ce proposce service)
- Faire partie de groupes de soutien : Partager ses objectifs avec d’autres est un excellent moyen de rester motivé.
Suggérer des techniques efficaces pour diminuer cette pratique
- Repérer les éléments déclencheurs : Notez ce qui vous incite à avoir envie.
- Se fixer des objectifs précis : Engagez-vous dans des stratégies progressives ou suivez le mouvement « nofap » pour une abstinence totale.
- Remplacer par des alternatives saines : Essayez le sport ou explorez de nouveaux hobbies.
Démystifier la dépendance à la masturbation pour mieux la combattre
Donner une définition claire de la masturbation et ses usages
Pratique sexuelle commune, la masturbation est reconnue pour ses effets positifs, notamment sur le stress et la conscience corporelle. Mais en cas d’excès, elle peut s’avérer problématique.
Noter les signaux d’une dépendance croissante
Une dépendance à la masturbation se traduit souvent par une intensification de la fréquence, ainsi qu’une difficulté à gérer l’activité, ce qui peut nuire aux relations interpersonnelles, notamment avec un partenaire.
Observer les influences sur la santé mentale et corporelle
Une dépendance à la masturbation, souvent associée à un usage excessif de pornographie, sollicite constamment le système dopaminergique, engendrant des problèmes tels que l’éjaculation précoce, la baisse d’énergie et une insatisfaction dans les relations sexuelles.
En dernière analyse
Se défaire de la masturbation compulsive est un chemin qui nécessite du temps et une grande persévérance. En établissant un plan précis et en s’entourant d’un soutien adapté, il devient possible de réussir ce défi et de récolter les fruits d’une vie plus épanouie et orientée vers des objectifs enrichissants.
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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: so I was at one of these training programs and it was a tea break and I was silently sipping my tea in the corner of the room and I see this man a fully grown up almost 40 year old man and he walks up to me he seems jittery and nervous so he walks up to me and he just stands in front of me so I sensed that he wanted to say something but he wasn’t able to find his voice I knew he wanted to communicate so I I make him comfortable and I start initiating this conversation and I say is there something that you would like to talk about so this man very reluctantly with almost a quiver in his voice in a very low tone tells me madam I masturbate and I’m here standing in front of him looking at his face my jaw drops and I say okay and then he continues madam I masturbate a lot I do it three to four times in a day sometimes now while I was looking at this fully grown man standing in front of me I knew there was something that was fundamentally troubling him it was almost as if he had carried this question on his shoulders for the entire life I could see the expanse of time with which he had lived with this question and he really wanted to get an answer and probably asking me was not the most appropriate things for him to do but it was the closest to an appropriate scenario that happened in his life so then I asked him is everything else ok in your life he became confident he said yes yes everything else is okay I’m married I have children I have a caring family all as well but I masturbate a lot is it ok and I looked at him and I said yes it’s fine it’s okay he was visibly relieved he said thank you he walked back to his chair and for the rest of the day during my training I saw him participate with confidence and commitment and this is not a one-off incident because almost in every single training program that we conduct we have seen adults fully grown adults ask us some of the most fundamental questions about sex and sexuality is it okay to watch porn I am a man and I’m attracted to men is it okay and in 99 percent times all they want to hear is that it’s okay so isn’t it crazy to think how an entire generation of adults in this country my parents your parents and all the adults that we see around us have not been told that it’s okay to explore your sex and sexuality safely and responsibly and isn’t it scary to think that this generation of grown-up people have lived potentially in ignorance confusion ambiguity guilt and shame for the whole of their lives and these are the adults who are supposed to take care of our children who are supposed to nurture them who are supposed to teach them decide that curriculum develop policies for aye young people basically decide the future of our future generations and some of them sit on really powerful chairs so they sit on these powerful chairs and then they say don’t talk about sex not in the classrooms not in our textbooks not in our movies not in our homes not in public and they say don’t talk about sex and sexuality because nobody’s talk to them and this is a strange paradox in a country where the population is 1.3 billion of course we are having a lot of sex and only time we as a society talk about sex is when gruesome episodes of sexual violence against women and children come to light and while the outrage against sexual violence is extremely extremely pleasing and a relief for many of us working on this issue some of the outcomes that we demand as a society are so naive and medieval castrate the rapist hang them create sixteen year-old children as adults if they commit heinous crimes jail them kill them lock them away all our solutions suggestions and investments to tackle the problem of sex sexuality and sexual violence come from a fear based approach where all we want to do is stain the perpetrator and we also use shame as a very very powerful external force to put our young people in place because we don’t have their best interests in our mind we use sexual shame to harm them and sadly as a country we have now gone beyond shame and we’ve started punishing our young people for expressing their sex and sexuality because as on date to 17 year olds in this country cannot kiss it’s illegal and if they’re caught one could go to prison so recently I was in Mumbai and I was attending a conference where a senior women’s rights activist dr. Meena Gopal said something that stayed with me she said that sex education is going to be the bedrock of change and when they say sex education we have to understand that it has to be comprehensive sexuality education it does not mean that we teach young people about men and women having sex about how to have sex and what not to do when you’re having sex and when not to have sex comprehensive sexuality education actually empowers our young people with knowledge skills and values that they basically require to be able to grow as young and confident adults it helps them develop emotionally mentally psychologically and it basically encompasses all the emotions that we go through when we experience relationships because when I say sexuality it’s much beyond sex it’s about what two people go through when they are in a relationship jealousy attraction confusion care concern responsibility all of this encompasses sexuality and we don’t want to talk to our young people about this and we do not educate them in spite of this being the fundamentals of who we are generations have gone by without talking about this now I was also a part of this generation I was 22 when the first time I got exposed to sex and sexuality it was a full day workshop by India’s first female sex educator don’t Panther ki was an absolute rock star she started this work in 1967 when most of us were not even conceived and she started talking about sexual behavior and healthy sexual development among children and young people so it was a session by doin mom and we were in college and she pulled me out in one of her sessions and she asked me to sit on a chair she asked me to close my eyes and she said uma think of your wedding night and think about everything what you could do what is going to happen what your varying think about your wedding night now I was sitting on this chair and my mind was flipping my mind froze I did not know what to think I did not know where to stop and the closest I could get was I thought of a bed full of flowers and a heart of roses and probably a scene from the movie border where Sunil Shetty and his wife are having his first night I couldn’t think and I could hear miss Pam Turkey’s voice in the background where she’s encouraging me to explore my sexuality and think deep about what are the possibilities and then I hear my classmates giggling in the background and I knew this was going to be a disaster after a few minutes she asked me to open my eyes and then she says okay you might tell us what did you see and I was flipping again what should I tell her of course I was not going to tell her about the heart of roses because I knew I was going to be heckled for the rest of my time in college so I said I saw a bed full of flowers and then she proved further and then I said I saw my husband and me she said okay what were you doing I was completely taken off god I wasn’t ready for this so I said we were talking so then she said what were you talking about and sheepishly innocently stupidly I said I asked him what his hobbies were and the reaction was like this my entire class burst out laughing and quite frankly I don’t remember what happened after that now the reality is as a young person who’s 22 I knew what I had to say I knew I had to say something about sex and sexuality I knew that I had to talk about my intimate sexual experience with my husband but I did not know how to see I did not know how to say it I did not know how to visualize it because I did not have any points of reference and I would imagine that most of us most of our young people and children feel the same we have very weak points of reference and as a young girl who was born and brought up in a small suburb in Mumbai in an Orthodox South Indian family I was not even allowed to think about these things leave alone doing it or experiencing it I remember the first time the movie murder came on cable television me and my sister literally learned to watch it at my friend’s place only to realize that the Cable Guy had cut the male lovemaking scene in the movie so we didn’t have access to education we didn’t have access to resources and that is what our young people and children are facing even today so what are we doing to our young people and our children and we see this time and again in our training programmes where we do this very interesting exercise where we pull out adults from the audience and I tell them very simply you have to come and just name the parts of your body from your head to toe just name all the parts of your body every single training program we conduct adults will name everything sometimes they name their intestines and their appendix but they will never name their penis the vagina their buttocks their anus and then you ask them why and you get all kinds of reasons these body parts are private these body parts are sexual organs and they’re not supposed to be spoken out loudly we cannot talk about it and then I asked them a simple question so if my penis my vagina my breasts and my butters are private does that mean the rest of my body is public and if these are the only organs that are sexual does that mean I don’t use the rest of my body for sex so what are we doing by sexualizing these body parts and confusing our children and young people and this is how we started literally perpetrating the culture of silence and shame and the vicious cycle continues so if we really have to change some of these things fundamentally it’s important that we start talking to adults first about sex and sexuality and start addressing some of these issues that they have faced as children and young people because we are the ones who tell our children break the silence be confident tell us if you need something tell us if somebody’s abusing you and what do we do when they break the silence we don’t know how to respond because imagine a policeman who’s sitting in front of a victim of rape and the victim says he inserted a rod in my vagina and this policeman cringes who needs to be taught about sexuality and who needs to be sensitized so it’s high time that adults take responsibility and start looking at this thus it’s time for the same patriarchal mindsets that have ruled us and ruined us to take some accountability and it’s time that men and boys start this change because if men don’t initiate this change now the notion of masculinity is poisoning the wealth from which our men and boys are drinking it’s become a toxic pool just actually affecting our men and boys as much as it’s affecting our women and girls because we have forgotten to talk to our men and boys about consent about boundaries about relationships but also about the possibility of abuse in our experience we have seen that when men are victims of sexual violence the guilt the shame the trauma is crushing because somewhere masculinity tells you that you are powerful and you can never be abused and if you’re abused you can never seek help and this is problematic and of course there is a complete non representation of people who do not fall into this heteronormative framework because we as a society don’t identify anything which is beyond a man and a woman and a husband and wife relationship anything outside is deviant and problematic also we must start treating our children and young people as sexual beings because they do have sexual feelings and they do experience sexuality and they do express it it’s normal and it’s healthy so it’s high time that we as adults as parents as peers talk to them about healthy sexual behavior and we talk to them we don’t ask schools to do it we don’t ask NGOs to do it we do the talk there’s no right time there’s no right age it’s when the child or a young person is ready now I want you all to imagine a young girl from a my marginalized community a minority religion a backward region in the country she is disabled and she’s lesbian ask yourself can this young girl free fall through life as you and me would can she express herself be confident about her sexuality and still be accepted in this society and if the answer is yes that’s the day we can truly say that India is a developed nation thank you .
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2.989 so I was at one of these training
2.989 programs and it was a tea break and I
2.989 was silently sipping my tea in the
2.989 corner of the room and I see this man a
2.989 fully grown up almost 40 year old man
2.989 and he walks up to me he seems jittery
2.989 and nervous so he walks up to me and he
2.989 just stands in front of me so I sensed
2.989 that he wanted to say something but he
2.989 wasn&;t able to find his voice I knew he
2.989 wanted to communicate so I I make him
2.989 comfortable and I start initiating this
2.989 conversation and I say is there
2.989 something that you would like to talk
2.989 about so this man very reluctantly with
2.989 almost a quiver in his voice in a very
2.989 low tone tells me madam I masturbate and
2.989 I&;m here standing in front of him
2.989 looking at his face my jaw drops and I
2.989 say okay and then he continues madam I
2.989 masturbate a lot I do it three to four
2.989 times in a day sometimes now while I was
2.989 looking at this fully grown man standing
2.989 in front of me I knew there was
2.989 something that was fundamentally
2.989 troubling him it was almost as if he had
2.989 carried this question on his shoulders
2.989 for the entire life I could see the
2.989 expanse of time with which he had lived
2.989 with this question and he really wanted
2.989 to get an answer and probably asking me
2.989 was not the most appropriate things for
2.989 him to do but it was the closest to an
2.989 appropriate scenario that happened in
2.989 his life so then I asked him is
2.989 everything else ok in your life
2.989 he became confident he said yes yes
2.989 everything else is okay I&;m married I
2.989 have children I have a caring family all
2.989 as well but I masturbate a lot
2.989 is it ok
2.989 and I looked at him and I said yes it&;s
2.989 fine
2.989 it&;s okay he was visibly relieved he
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2.989 chair and for the rest of the day during
2.989 my training I saw him participate with
2.989 confidence and commitment and this is
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2.989 every single training program that we
2.989 conduct we have seen adults fully grown
2.989 adults ask us some of the most
2.989 fundamental questions about sex and
2.989 sexuality is it okay to watch porn I am
2.989 a man and I&;m attracted to men is it
2.989 okay and in 99 percent times all they
2.989 want to hear is that it&;s okay so isn&;t
2.989 it crazy to think how an entire
2.989 generation of adults in this country my
2.989 parents your parents and all the adults
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2.989 that it&;s okay to explore your sex and
2.989 sexuality safely and responsibly and
2.989 isn&;t it scary to think that this
2.989 generation of grown-up people have lived
2.989 potentially in ignorance confusion
2.989 ambiguity guilt and shame for the whole
2.989 of their lives and these are the adults
2.989 who are supposed to take care of our
2.989 children who are supposed to nurture
2.989 them who are supposed to teach them
2.989 decide that curriculum develop policies
2.989 for aye young people basically decide
2.989 the future of our future generations and
2.989 some of them sit on really powerful
2.989 chairs so they sit on these powerful
2.989 chairs and then they say don&;t talk
2.989 about sex not in the classrooms not in
2.989 our textbooks not in our movies not in
2.989 our homes not in public and they say
2.989 don&;t talk about sex and sexuality
2.989 because nobody&;s
2.989 talk to them and this is a strange
2.989 paradox in a country where the
2.989 population is 1.3 billion of course we
2.989 are having a lot of sex and only time we
2.989 as a society talk about sex is when
2.989 gruesome episodes of sexual violence
2.989 against women and children come to light
2.989 and while the outrage against sexual
2.989 violence is extremely extremely pleasing
2.989 and a relief for many of us working on
2.989 this issue some of the outcomes that we
2.989 demand as a society are so naive and
2.989 medieval castrate the rapist hang them
2.989 create sixteen year-old children as
2.989 adults if they commit heinous crimes
2.989 jail them kill them lock them away all
2.989 our solutions suggestions and
2.989 investments to tackle the problem of sex
2.989 sexuality and sexual violence come from
2.989 a fear based approach where all we want
2.989 to do is stain the perpetrator and we
2.989 also use shame as a very very powerful
2.989 external force to put our young people
2.989 in place because we don&;t have their
2.989 best interests in our mind we use sexual
2.989 shame to harm them and sadly as a
2.989 country we have now gone beyond shame
2.989 and we&;ve started punishing our young
2.989 people for expressing their sex and
2.989 sexuality because as on date to 17 year
2.989 olds in this country cannot kiss it&;s
2.989 illegal and if they&;re caught one could
2.989 go to prison so recently I was in Mumbai
2.989 and I was attending a conference where a
2.989 senior women&;s rights activist dr. Meena
2.989 Gopal said something that stayed with me
2.989 she said that sex education is going to
2.989 be the bedrock of change and when they
2.989 say sex education we have to understand
2.989 that it has to be comprehensive
2.989 sexuality education it does not mean
2.989 that we teach young people about men and
2.989 women having sex about how to have sex
2.989 and what not to do when you&;re having
2.989 sex and when not to have sex
2.989 comprehensive sexuality education
2.989 actually empowers our young people with
2.989 knowledge skills and values that they
2.989 basically require to be able to grow as
2.989 young and confident adults it helps them
2.989 develop emotionally mentally
2.989 psychologically and it basically
2.989 encompasses all the emotions that we go
2.989 through when we experience relationships
2.989 because when I say sexuality it&;s much
2.989 beyond sex it&;s about what two people go
2.989 through when they are in a relationship
2.989 jealousy attraction confusion care
2.989 concern responsibility all of this
2.989 encompasses sexuality and we don&;t want
2.989 to talk to our young people about this
2.989 and we do not educate them in spite of
2.989 this being the fundamentals of who we
2.989 are generations have gone by without
2.989 talking about this now I was also a part
2.989 of this generation I was 22 when the
2.989 first time I got exposed to sex and
2.989 sexuality it was a full day workshop by
2.989 India&;s first female sex educator don&;t
2.989 Panther ki was an absolute rock star she
2.989 started this work in 1967 when most of
2.989 us were not even conceived and she
2.989 started talking about sexual behavior
2.989 and healthy sexual development among
2.989 children and young people so it was a
2.989 session by doin mom and we were in
2.989 college and she pulled me out in one of
2.989 her sessions and she asked me to sit on
2.989 a chair she asked me to close my eyes
2.989 and she said uma think of your wedding
2.989 night and think
2.989 about everything what you could do what
2.989 is going to happen what your varying
2.989 think about your wedding night now I was
2.989 sitting on this chair and my mind was
2.989 flipping my mind froze I did not know
2.989 what to think I did not know where to
2.989 stop and the closest I could get was I
2.989 thought of a bed full of flowers and a
2.989 heart of roses
2.989 and probably a scene from the movie
2.989 border where Sunil Shetty and his wife
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2.989 think and I could hear miss Pam Turkey&;s
2.989 voice in the background where she&;s
2.989 encouraging me to explore my sexuality
2.989 and think deep about what are the
2.989 possibilities and then I hear my
2.989 classmates giggling in the background
2.989 and I knew this was going to be a
2.989 disaster after a few minutes she asked
2.989 me to open my eyes and then she says
2.989 okay you might tell us what did you see
2.989 and I was flipping again what should I
2.989 tell her of course I was not going to
2.989 tell her about the heart of roses
2.989 because I knew I was going to be heckled
2.989 for the rest of my time in college so I
2.989 said I saw a bed full of flowers and
2.989 then she proved further and then I said
2.989 I saw my husband and me she said okay
2.989 what were you doing I was completely
2.989 taken off god I wasn&;t ready for this so
2.989 I said we were talking so then she said
2.989 what were you talking about and
2.989 sheepishly innocently stupidly I said I
2.989 asked him what his hobbies were
2.989 and the reaction was like this my entire
2.989 class burst out laughing and quite
2.989 frankly I don&;t remember what happened
2.989 after that now the reality is as a young
2.989 person who&;s 22 I knew what I had to say
2.989 I knew I had to say something about sex
2.989 and sexuality I knew that I had to talk
2.989 about my intimate sexual experience with
2.989 my husband but I did not know how to see
2.989 I did not know how to say it I did not
2.989 know how to visualize it because I did
2.989 not have any points of reference and I
2.989 would imagine that most of us most of
2.989 our young people and children feel the
2.989 same we have very weak points of
2.989 reference and as a young girl who was
2.989 born and brought up in a small suburb in
2.989 Mumbai in an Orthodox South Indian
2.989 family I was not even allowed to think
2.989 about these things leave alone doing it
2.989 or experiencing it I remember the first
2.989 time the movie murder came on cable
2.989 television
2.989 me and my sister literally learned to
2.989 watch it at my friend&;s place only to
2.989 realize that the Cable Guy had cut the
2.989 male lovemaking scene in the movie so we
2.989 didn&;t have access to education we
2.989 didn&;t have access to resources and that
2.989 is what our young people and children
2.989 are facing even today so what are we
2.989 doing to our young people and our
2.989 children and we see this time and again
2.989 in our training programmes where we do
2.989 this very interesting exercise where we
2.989 pull out adults from the audience and I
2.989 tell them very simply you have to come
2.989 and just name the parts of your body
2.989 from your head to toe just name all the
2.989 parts of your body every single training
2.989 program we conduct adults will name
2.989 everything sometimes they name their
2.989 intestines and their appendix but they
2.989 will never name their penis the vagina
2.989 their buttocks
2.989 their anus
2.989 and then you ask them why and you get
2.989 all kinds of reasons these body parts
2.989 are private these body parts are sexual
2.989 organs and they&;re not supposed to be
2.989 spoken out loudly we cannot talk about
2.989 it and then I asked them a simple
2.989 question so if my penis my vagina my
2.989 breasts and my butters are private does
2.989 that mean the rest of my body is public
2.989 and if these are the only organs that
2.989 are sexual does that mean I don&;t use
2.989 the rest of my body for sex so what are
2.989 we doing by sexualizing these body parts
2.989 and confusing our children and young
2.989 people and this is how we started
2.989 literally perpetrating the culture of
2.989 silence and shame and the vicious cycle
2.989 continues so if we really have to change
2.989 some of these things fundamentally it&;s
2.989 important that we start talking to
2.989 adults first
2.989 about sex and sexuality and start
2.989 addressing some of these issues that
2.989 they have faced as children and young
2.989 people because we are the ones who tell
2.989 our children break the silence be
2.989 confident tell us if you need something
2.989 tell us if somebody&;s abusing you and
2.989 what do we do when they break the
2.989 silence we don&;t know how to respond
2.989 because imagine a policeman who&;s
2.989 sitting in front of a victim of rape and
2.989 the victim says he inserted a rod in my
2.989 vagina
2.989 and this policeman cringes who needs to
2.989 be taught about sexuality and who needs
2.989 to be sensitized so it&;s high time that
2.989 adults take responsibility and start
2.989 looking at this thus it&;s time for the
2.989 same patriarchal mindsets that have
2.989 ruled us and ruined us to take some
2.989 accountability and it&;s time that men
2.989 and boys start this change because if
2.989 men don&;t initiate this change now the
2.989 notion of masculinity is poisoning the
2.989 wealth from which our men and boys are
2.989 drinking it&;s become a toxic pool
2.989 just actually affecting our men and boys
2.989 as much as it&;s affecting our women and
2.989 girls because we have forgotten to talk
2.989 to our men and boys about consent about
2.989 boundaries about relationships but also
2.989 about the possibility of abuse in our
2.989 experience we have seen that when men
2.989 are victims of sexual violence the guilt
2.989 the shame the trauma is crushing because
2.989 somewhere masculinity tells you that you
2.989 are powerful and you can never be abused
2.989 and if you&;re abused you can never seek
2.989 help and this is problematic and of
2.989 course there is a complete non
2.989 representation of people who do not fall
2.989 into this heteronormative framework
2.989 because we as a society don&;t identify
2.989 anything which is beyond a man and a
2.989 woman and a husband and wife
2.989 relationship anything outside is deviant
2.989 and problematic also we must start
2.989 treating our children and young people
2.989 as sexual beings because they do have
2.989 sexual feelings and they do experience
2.989 sexuality and they do express it it&;s
2.989 normal and it&;s healthy so it&;s high
2.989 time that we as adults as parents as
2.989 peers talk to them about healthy sexual
2.989 behavior and we talk to them we don&;t
2.989 ask schools to do it we don&;t ask NGOs
2.989 to do it we do the talk there&;s no right
2.989 time there&;s no right age it&;s when the
2.989 child or a young person is ready now I
2.989 want you all to imagine a young girl
2.989 from a my marginalized community a
2.989 minority religion a backward region in
2.989 the country she is disabled and she&;s
2.989 lesbian ask yourself can this young girl
2.989 free fall through life as you and me
2.989 would can she express herself be
2.989 confident about her sexuality
2.989 and still be accepted in this society
2.989 and if the answer is yes that&;s the day
2.989 we can truly say that India is a
2.989 developed nation thank you
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