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Créer une version de soi-même libérée de la dépendance à la pornographie
Des connexions positives apportent un soutien au quotidien
Développer des liens sincères et équilibrés favorise une vie sexuelle plus enrichissante et loin des fantasmes virtuels
Adopter une approche éthique de la sexualité
Opter pour une sexualité éthique améliore la qualité des relations et assure un épanouissement mutuel Se défaire de la pornographie demande un travail de conscience, des outils spécifiques et un soutien constant. En suivant une approche structurée, il est possible de surmonter cette dépendance et de se reconnecter à une sexualité plus saine et respectueuse. De nombreuses stratégies existent pour surmonter cette dépendance , à définir avec l’équipe de chaste-t.com .
Adopter des démarches responsables et bienveillantes envers soi-même
Prendre du temps pour des pratiques comme le yoga ou la méditation renforce l’harmonie corps-esprit et permet de mieux gérer les désirs compulsifs
Structurer une approche efficace pour gérer le processus de sevrage
Organiser un lieu qui soutient la récupération
La restriction d’accès aux contenus pornographiques via des extensions ou des applications de contrôle parental est une première étape. Aménager son environnement pour se concentrer sur des activités productives peut également diminuer les envies excessives.
Prendre des résolutions spécifiques et atteignables
Réduire l’impact de la dépendance commence par des objectifs précis, comme diminuer le temps passé à regarder des contenus pornographiques. Le processus de sevrage nécessite aussi une introspection sur les motivations et les bénéfices futurs.
Adopter des solutions pour canaliser les désirs
Reconnaître les éléments déclencheurs et les éviter est essentiel. La TCC, les activités physiques ou sociales, et le soutien d’un réseau de proches sont des solutions efficaces.
Décoder les mécanismes de l’addiction au contenu pornographique
Analyser les effets de la consommation de porno sur le quotidien
L’addiction altère la santé des relations intimes, l’image de soi et la capacité à interagir émotionnellement. Une surconsommation de porno peut renforcer un lien émotionnel centré sur ces contenus
Détecter les manifestations d’une addiction
L’addiction à la pornographie se traduit par un usage incontrôlé et répétitif, souvent source de culpabilité et de frustration, impactant négativement la vie personnelle et professionnelle.
Examiner les aspects psychiques en cause
Le processus addictif lié à la pornographie repose sur une suractivation des mécanismes cérébraux de récompense, accentuant les habitudes compulsives et le sentiment de mal-être.
Se renseigner sur les possibilités de soutien disponibles
Se faire accompagner par un spécialiste en santé mentale
S’adresser à un thérapeute spécialiste des dépendances comportementales, tel un psychologue pratiquant la TCC, permet de mettre en lumière les causes sous-jacentes et d’avoir un suivi adapté.
Participer activement à des rencontres de soutien
Dans les groupes de soutien, les membres échangent leurs vécus, découvrent des solutions éprouvées et se soutiennent mutuellement dans leur cheminement vers la guérison.
Exploiter des applications et outils numériques pour suivre sa progression
Certaines plateformes numériques facilitent le suivi des progrès, offrent des rappels motivants et encouragent l’établissement de bonnes habitudes pour éviter la consommation de contenus pornographiques.
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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: Fight the beast. Help for sexual addiction. So, I saw a meme about this on Telegram and somebody also sent it to me on Twitter. Okay. Heather Nielsen, porn recovery expert. She sells programs for quitting porn. A lot of times with women, it’s not their porn addiction. It’s like their husband or their ex-husband. I don’t know if that’s the story, but I’ve seen channels from women that are like dedicated to being anti- porn and it’s because they were married to a porn addict. So 9 days ago, from porn recovery coach to only fans, what broke me? How does creating an only fans help men? Why I left religion? My new religious. So she was a Christian. Here’s something really interesting I noticed too when I was looking at this. So she took like 9 months off of making videos or like a year plus whatever. So this was a year ago. She took many months off. She comes back. I’m back. She she makes a couple videos. And then 1 month ago, why I ended 6 years of celibacy and then a couple weeks that so she was celibate for 6 years. I was thinking maybe this was like um when I saw the meme in that I thought well maybe it’s like a troll. She made an Only Fans, but her Only Fans is just her telling people to quit porn. Like, it’s not actually porn. But no, it doesn’t appear to be that way cuz when I looked at the website here, man ready to quit, woman ready to quit, teen parent partner SP then spicy, not interested in or if you’re not interested in recovery and you want to explore conscious sexuality, join my only fans. This is crazy. Okay, let’s start with a older video. Let’s start with uh dealing with negative thoughts around porn addiction. This week we’re talking about recurring negative thoughts. Recurring negative thoughts or R&Ts are basically those thoughts that batter your mind all day long. Those negative thoughts, insecurity, pain, memories, experiences that you’ve had or fears and doubts that you have for the future. Basically these thoughts are the product of the second law of thermodynamics which essentially says that without added input without careful input everything turns to disorder and chaos including your mind. Essentially your mind if you are not carefully thinking positive motivational productive thoughts will deteriorate into the random and negative. So, how can you overcome these recurring negative thoughts? Well, we have a couple different steps to this process. The first step to the process is to identify what negative thoughts are holding you back. What’s affecting you emotionally? Now, that’s not to say that every negative thought is a negative thought. You know, some Okay, I agree with uh basically everything she said there. Obviously, it’s not really the second law of thermodynamics, but that as an analogy, sure. How to quit porn noof fap challenge. Are you struggling to quit looking at porn or perhaps some other sexual addiction? If so, you’re in the right place. My name is Heather and I’m founder of Fight the Beast, an online addiction recovery program and support network. Now, I understand you might feel uncomfortable or even ashamed, but I want to congratulate you for taking the first steps towards recovery. Intrusive thoughts is that you’ve identified a problem that’s negatively affecting your life and you’re ready. That’s a good one. Somebody should use that for something. That could be a Twitter handle. That could be a band name to do something about it, which I think is awesome. YouTube channel. 98% of men and 60% of women are affected by porn or sexual addiction, but only a few take action to get freedom. So again, congratulations. I respect you for being here today, and I’m excited to help you. Now, you probably have some questions and maybe some concerns, too. and I’m here to help answer those as we guide you through this journey. Even if everything else you’ve tried in the past has failed, we can help just as we’ve helped thousands of others. Full recovery is not only possible, but it’s proven. That’s just an ad. Um I’m a big believer in in trying to do a 30-day nofap. By the way, if you’re somebody if you’re somebody who doesn’t feel like it’s wrong to jerk off and so you don’t want to quit, you should just you should do 30 days just to prove that you can cuz what you’re going to find is that it’s hard and then you and then you’re going to ask yourself why why do I why can’t I just not do this if I don’t want to? Well, she has a she has a 1 million view from two years ago. The benefits of jerking off if you didn’t know. H is this going to be about prostate cancer? What is this? So recently I found out about the benefits of jerking off every day as much as you possibly can. First of all, you’ll be doing it solo and you’ll feel so low you won’t have the motivation to meet real people and that’s scary. Number two, after a few hours, you’ll have the impulsive urge to do it again. It just keeps coming back. And every time you do it, you get brain fog to remind you it’s time to do it again. Can porn make you gay? The truth may surprise you. All right, here here’s here’s what we’re all here for. From porn recovery coach to Only Fans, what broke me? I’m honestly so scared of making this video and I will cry. Not because I think that I’m in the wrong, but most of you won’t understand. As the title of this video said, after 5 years of teaching porn and sexual addiction, congrats DS88. That’s awesome. Recovery, I created and launched an only fans. That decision has hurt a lot of people tremendously. People have told me that they had panic attacks, that they’ve cried, that they felt sick, that they were shaking. And I feel terrible about that. But I need you to trust me in a way. Understand that this decision was made very, very carefully. Understand that I have my reasons for what I did. And even if you don’t, I wanted more money. I wasn’t making enough money. Guys, I have a perfectly good reason. I am greedy. I conquered my lust only to succumb to my greed. Fully understand. Just hear me out. I’m also a little emotional because it’s the ending of an era, a beautiful era, something that I poured my heart and soul into. You guys haven’t seen how much work and dedication and love I’ve put into my business. How many 4:00 a.m. nights I spent writing, creating content. I’m not leaving recovery work. I’m still going to do that. I’m just going to moonlight as a literal [ __ ] porn [ __ ] It’s so crazy. taken away from the most neurotic [ __ ] I’ve ever seen. Just how much has gone into it. I literally gave my life to this cause. I’ve given away countless free hours of coaching, free advice, free courses because I truly deeply cared and wanted to change the world. And I did it in the best possible method and way that I knew how. And it was beautiful and I am proud of it. But the truth is I learned things that I can’t unlearn. I’ve seen things that I can’t unsee and at the end of the day there are things that need to change. My ego wanted that method to work. My ego wanted innocence and idealism to win. But the last 5 years have changed me. And the first rule of survival is adaptability. If you watch porn, you’re you’re you’re owned by Jews. Okay? Watching porn is the most submissive to Jewish thing you can do. There’s nothing you can do that says, « I I deserve to be controlled by Jews more than loading up a a porn video. » I just want you to know that. I want you to think about that every single time. We are in a new world and we are playing new games. And if I want to truly help people heal in a world gone crazy, I have to be willing to change. So, in this video, I’m going to tell you everything that I learned and everything that made me make this switch. And I’ll even give you a little bit of a preview into what’s coming next. I’m excited. I’m happy for the change. I just This is scary telling you guys about this. As I said before, I’ve spent months thinking about this. In this video, I’m probably going to go through about 40 reasons why I made this decision. So, bear with me and I’ll try to get through them. That way you have a complete and well-rounded perspective of what broke, why I changed, and where this is going. So, let’s get into it. The first one is that the porn industry simply isn’t going away. We can’t go back in time. There’s no getting rid of this. We can only learn to adapt. Most people have already had their brains significantly rewired through multiple partners, appeal to futility, a lot of porn consumption and and and also nonsequitator. Like you even if porn isn’t going away, that doesn’t mean you have to participate. In fact, you don’t have to. You don’t have to participate at all in the porn industry. You can completely forego the entire thing. And there’s just no going back. It would be great if we were all virgins when we married our high school sweethearts or first date college boyfriend, girlfriend, and we lived happily ever after. But that’s just not the case anymore. And in order for a recovery program to truly work, it has to embrace that fact. The guilt and the shame, that’s what ruins them. We need to pause this. I She So, she also stopped being a Christian, which is not obviously not like a coincidence. You know what I mean? A lot of the reason people leave the church is as a cope because they want to sin. Why is it so quiet? Spiritual leader. I guess when I started my organization and I decided that it was going to be a non-religious organization, I didn’t realize a literal fall from grace. Things that I did, she was the beast the entire time. Dude, I it’s I haven’t turned up as loud as it goes. This is like unwatchable. Embrace the beast. At least she’s getting cooked in the comments. Feel guilt and that it’s okay. That actually helps you become at peace with where you’ve been rather than just shaming you that it was bad and teaching you self-discipline. A lot of people need to be rewired back to something natural. And that’s a hard truth. People are watching some crazy stuff nowadays. We’re watching furries. We’re watching just insane violent um crazy crazy stuff online. AI stuff. I mean, the technology side of this is just going bonkers. And I think a lot of people actually need rewiring back to something natural, something safe, something healthy. And while I could keep going and just shaming people into like stop all of it and just be normal, it wasn’t working. People need a guide to help them get back to something healthier before they can quit altogether and find a partner. So that being said, standard recovery methods simply don’t work for most men. So we’re going to work with what we’ve got and we’re going to make it better, but we can’t get in a time machine. Simple reality is more than 60% of men don’t want to quit this addiction. small percentage like 30 to 40% would like to reduce their use. And some men feel guilty, but they really just want to get rid of their guilt. They don’t actually want to quit. So, if you’re watching, you know, 60% of heroin addicts don’t want to quit heroin. And so, I’ve decided to become a dealer. I’ve decided to start selling heroin because, you know, I have good quality control. She She wanted money. That’s You’re not You’re not going to convince me. Also, I think if I was going to psychoanalyze it a little bit beyond she just wanted the money and she she knew she had like a following of like guys who would who have been watching her videos. Guys have been watching her videos who struggle with porn addiction. She’s cute. So, she’s like, if I make a porn, all these guys are going to instantly sign up. They, you know, they’ve already been like jerking off thinking about me. Like, I’m just going to make a bunch of money easy as soon as I put this up. This would be an interesting video. I don’t have time to sit here and watch like hours of this woman’s [ __ ] But I do think her like ending her celibacy maybe rewired her brain and made her go kind of crazy this video and you’re like, « Oh my gosh, I can’t believe she’s doing this horrible thing. » Don’t go to that page. Don’t participate in the things that I’m teaching. That’s okay. You go back to your absence streak. But if you aren’t on an abstinence streak, maybe there’s a reason. And maybe I have truths to teach you. Just maybe. Don’t shame me for what I’m doing. If you don’t like it, don’t participate. But don’t make me the villain next. Maybe as a female, I was never meant to lead men. I accept that. It’s been an uphill battle as a business. It’s been an uphill battle for me personally. Right. So based and true, you’re not meant to lead men as a female. If you’re trying to quit gooning, why would you go to an attractive woman and be like, « She’s going to help me stop jerking off. I’m just going to watch her videos every day and it’s the whole idea is bad. » But very telling. She said, « It’s been an uphill battle as a business. I believe that obviously the YouTube channel itself isn’t that big. So she couldn’t, you know, I don’t know how many courses she was selling. I saw somebody in the chat saying it’s probably true. She was probably getting messages from dudes being like, « If you made an Only Fans, I’ll pay you like hundreds of dollars a month or whatever. » Everyone always asks, « How often do your clients fall for you? How often do they develop emotional attachments? » Too often. Okay, that’s the honest answer. I didn’t want to face it before. I didn’t want to accept it. We all knew it was true from the very beginning. It’s painful. It makes me sad. I wish I was a dude. I wish I had a dude’s face. I don’t. I’m sorry. I never will. That being said, in some ways, I’m going to focus on what I can do as a woman in recovery coaching. I’m ready to fully embrace my own sexuality in front of all of you guys. Yes, I am a sexual woman. Hello. Okay. You You think I’m pretty? Cool. That’s fine. We can all be at peace with it and then we can move on and be logical about our sexuality and make good, rational, healthy choices. I have some logical ideas for good, rational, healthy. Why don’t you go find a husband? Okay. Mar go find a man, marry him, have a family, and keep your sexuality, private, and between you and your husband. That sounds kind of good and healthy to me. Or you could charge people money to see your butthole on the internet. I had to come to terms with that and I think anyone who works with me or joins either side of this program should also be able to come to terms. Does being married make it I mean I think obviously it’s easier if you’re married. There’s first of all you’re not going through big dry spells of of non-intimacy and second of all you’re probably going to feel even more shame and guilt if you do that stuff. So I mean I think I think obviously it helps. Yeah. with them. I spent the last 5 years pretty debilitatingly afraid of the fact that I would be sexual. Just just try not to use that as an excuse. Try I I don’t like the I’ll quit when I’m married. I’ll stop I’ll stop watching porn after I get married. Like will you will you if you can stop after you’re married? You can stop now. Food for thought. Something to think about. If you can’t stop now, if you’ve tried and you’ve struggled, what makes you think you can stop when you’re married? My advice is to get it under wraps now. And now I’m just saying, « All right, the heck of the game. I don’t care. It’s fine. » The next one is that I have worked with all religions and there’s just things that I can’t unsee. People who are religious have stronger addictions and that’s because the number one thing that fuels porn addiction is not beautiful women. you know, when you start building a business, you expect it to start off slow. But you’re like, if I if I work at this, I’ll make lots of money down the road or whatever. And I just think she never really got where she was hoping to go. And that probably is like really just the biggest piece of the puzzle right there. She’s just like wants more money. It’s actually just guilt and shame. Guilt and shame is right. So why people are addicted to porn is guilt and shame. I actually really disagree with this. I don’t know. as somebody who feels a good amount of guilt and shame if he if he jerks off. The the idea that that is what makes me want to jerk off is very that’s like a weird porn brain take. This is this is like a what progressives say. This is what sex positive therapists say is like oh the reason you goon so much is because you have a sense of shame there. There’s no studies that exist that show that that shame has like a negative effect, right? Like there’s the there’s no studies that where they’ve like looked at outcomes of people who masturbate versus people who don’t or people who feel shame versus people who don’t. That doesn’t exist anywhere. And there’s definitely no evidence that that can link the shame to that it’s like harder to quit or anything like that. Porn addiction is not beautiful women is not the need for something novel. It’s actually just the beast. I didn’t realize that when I started this organization. I thought it was our conscience and God and biology and technology shame. It’s not good for you. It’s bad for your brain. No, it’s literally just guilt and shame. I knew this early on when I started Fight the Beast. I decided that I didn’t want it to be a religious She just became a progressive. She just she just decided that guilt and shame are social constructs that are enforced on you by society and and that they that they like if you if you just stop having shame then it’s no longer wrong what you’re doing. Apply that to anything else. Apply that to literally anything else. Oh, murder. No, man. The reason you don’t want to commit murder is just a sense of guilt and shame. But that’s just your [ __ ] conscious, man. That society brainwashed you into having you. This only gets applied to sexual deviency. Really, the idea that like guilt and shame are these bad social constructs that you just need to ignore and then everything’s fine. That only gets applied to sexual deviency and literally nothing else. Program because I saw that religious and 12step programs were less effective. So, I made my program non-religious, but its root was still the same. I don’t know about that. Isn’t AA is uh religious? And it’s kind of like the most of I maybe that’s true. I have no idea. This is bad for you. Which led to kind of dubious though. Influence of religiosity on 12step participation. Religious practices among adults are associated with more 12step participation, which in turn is linked to better treatment outcomes. findings extend the evidence for the protective effects of lifetime religious behaviors to an improved treatment response among adolescence and provide preliminary support for the 12step proposition that helping others in recovery may lead to better outcomes. Youth with low or no lifetime religious practices may assimilate less well. So, this is the exact opposite of what she’s saying. It’s literally the exact opposite. Maybe you can find contradicting studies, but uh it’s a it’s a dubious, you know, it it doesn’t sound right. It sounds counterintuitive when you say religion doesn’t help you quit gooning. So, I’d take that with a grain of salt. And shame when people relapse, they felt weak. I am now removing all guilt and shame literally by putting myself on the chopping block to say, « Hey, I’m not going to show up guilty or ashamed. I don’t want you to show up guilty or shamed anymore either. We are all going to embrace our biology in this program moving forward. I’m okay with my biology. We’re going to embrace our bi. It’s not about what you want. It’s not a question of like like a choice. It’s not supposed to be a choice. God gave you a conscious for a reason. I’m okay with my own sexual power. You should be okay with your own biology and your own feelings of lust and desire. They’re okay. Okay. I’m tired of making people feel bad about that. I’ve been making that change for a few months now, but I’m making it more seriously now. The next problem and now you can buy my porn. Like it it’s such a crazy extreme. Like even if you agreed with what she’s saying, which I don’t at all. I don’t agree at all with what she’s saying. Lust is definitely a problem. I’ve seen so many people have their lives ruined because they couldn’t control their lust. even like even from a purely pragmatic viewpoint is that men who recover marriage is destroyed often feel pretty lost like the dating pool sucks and I get that and just because you quit porn does not mean you’re going to find a partner and even though I’ve helped a lot of men reach 30 days clean 6 months clean a year clean they often come back and ask the question now what I never get to see any feminine beauty ever again like I never get sex ever again. And honestly, it really hurts my heart. And I think you can only look into the eyes of about a thousand men who are emotionally hurting, whose wife, just just remember that for, you know, 10,000 years of human history. For the vast majority of human history, people did not have access to hardcore graphic internet pornography. And men just live their lives. You know what I mean? Oh, if you don’t get to see naked women getting railed by other dudes, what a tragedy. It It’s literally going to bring me to tears that you should be denied that. Like, you shouldn’t even have access to that to begin with, bro. That shouldn’t even be on the table. Are withholding. There are situations where they can’t date before you understand. And you have compassion. And I think that compassion You guys can call it sin. You can be like, « Oh man, she’s going to the dark side. » No. Like, it hurts to look into that many men’s eyes to know that they’re hurting. And I’ve gotten off calls and just wanted to cry because I tried to be strong on the call. And I was like, « No, keep going. Like, don’t do anything. Like, you got this. » And just knowing that like they’re dying inside because their biology, their soul, their spirit craves that feminine beauty craves that feminine love and there’s no one to give it to them. something that’s supposed to lift you up. And in a way, I I could be here, but I want to help people get back to that. So, the screenshots have been going to get back to the idea of guiding mouses into somebody that you honor and respect. Worst person I’ve ever seen, not somebody that’s dehumanizing. Stop lying. It’s because you want money. The social media to prostitution pipeline is crazy. The the the comments are very white pilling. My AA leader runs a homemade brewery. She makes the best beer. Going from rehabbing addicts to selling them drugs and exploiting weakness for your own personal gain. Are you a bad person because of this? Probably. The fact you built your channel helping people overcome a strong addiction and then you feed them that very same addiction is disgusting. You should be ashamed. Hey, what up famama Ding-Dong? It is I, your boy LP, and the clip you just watched is from my live stream show, The Daily Cope, which I do four to five times a week on Rumble, Odyssey, and my other YouTube channel. I will link all of them below if you want to check it out. And thanks for watching. Hope you’re having a great day, and I will catch you on the flip side. Peace out. .
Déroulement de la vidéo:
0.08 Fight the beast. Help for sexual
3.04 addiction. So, I saw a meme about this
5.6 on Telegram and somebody also sent it to
7.279 me on Twitter. Okay. Heather Nielsen,
9.04 porn recovery expert. She sells programs
13.44 for quitting porn. A lot of times with
15.679 women, it’s not their porn addiction.
17.68 It’s like their husband or their
18.96 ex-husband. I don’t know if that’s the
20.56 story, but I’ve seen channels from women
22.64 that are like dedicated to being anti-
24.72 porn and it’s because they were married
26.72 to a porn addict. So 9 days ago, from
29.519 porn recovery coach to only fans, what
32.88 broke me? How does creating an only fans
35.84 help men?
37.76 Why I left religion? My new religious.
40.64 So she was a Christian. Here’s something
42.8 really interesting I noticed too when I
44.559 was looking at this. So she took like 9
46.96 months off of making videos or like a
48.879 year plus whatever. So this was a year
50.32 ago. She took many months off. She comes
52.559 back. I’m back. She she makes a couple
55.039 videos. And then 1 month ago, why I
57.76 ended 6 years of celibacy and then a
61.52 couple weeks that so she was celibate
63.76 for 6 years. I was thinking maybe this
66.56 was like um when I saw the meme in that
68.799 I thought well maybe it’s like a troll.
70.799 She made an Only Fans, but her Only Fans
73.76 is just her telling people to quit porn.
76.56 Like, it’s not actually porn. But no, it
78.88 doesn’t appear to be that way cuz when I
80.159 looked at the website here, man ready to
82.4 quit, woman ready to quit, teen parent
84.799 partner SP then spicy, not interested in
88.24 or if you’re not interested in recovery
91.92 and you want to explore conscious
93.68 sexuality, join my only fans. This is
97.2 crazy. Okay, let’s start with a older
99.759 video. Let’s start with uh dealing with
102.159 negative thoughts around porn addiction.
104.799 This week we’re talking about recurring
106.799 negative thoughts. Recurring negative
108.88 thoughts or R&Ts are basically those
111.759 thoughts that batter your mind all day
114.56 long. Those negative thoughts,
116.0 insecurity, pain, memories, experiences
119.28 that you’ve had or fears and doubts that
121.68 you have for the future. Basically these
124.56 thoughts are the product of the second
126.88 law of thermodynamics which essentially
129.36 says that without added input without
132.4 careful input everything turns to
136.16 disorder and chaos including your mind.
139.44 Essentially your mind if you are not
141.68 carefully thinking positive motivational
144.56 productive thoughts will deteriorate
147.2 into the random and negative. So, how
151.52 can you overcome these recurring
153.76 negative thoughts? Well, we have a
155.599 couple different steps to this process.
157.12 The first step to the process is to
159.68 identify what negative thoughts are
162.56 holding you back. What’s affecting you
164.4 emotionally? Now, that’s not to say that
167.12 every negative thought is a negative
169.76 thought. You know, some
171.36 Okay, I agree with uh basically
173.28 everything she said there. Obviously,
174.72 it’s not really the second law of
176.64 thermodynamics, but that as an analogy,
178.879 sure. How to quit porn noof fap
181.68 challenge.
182.64 Are you struggling to quit looking at
184.4 porn or perhaps some other sexual
186.08 addiction? If so, you’re in the right
188.239 place. My name is Heather and I’m
190.239 founder of Fight the Beast, an online
191.92 addiction recovery program and support
193.76 network. Now, I understand you might
195.92 feel uncomfortable or even ashamed, but
198.08 I want to congratulate you for taking
199.92 the first steps towards recovery.
202.08 Intrusive thoughts is that you’ve
203.76 identified a problem that’s negatively
205.44 affecting your life and you’re ready.
207.04 That’s a good one. Somebody should use
208.56 that for something. That could be a
209.92 Twitter handle. That could be a band
213.12 name
213.92 to do something about it, which I think
215.84 is awesome.
217.12 YouTube channel.
218.4 98% of men and 60% of women are affected
221.36 by porn or sexual addiction, but only a
223.76 few take action to get freedom. So
226.08 again, congratulations. I respect you
228.64 for being here today, and I’m excited to
230.48 help you. Now, you probably have some
233.28 questions and maybe some concerns, too.
235.68 and I’m here to help answer those as we
237.519 guide you through this journey. Even if
240.4 everything else you’ve tried in the past
242.239 has failed, we can help just as we’ve
245.2 helped thousands of others. Full
247.519 recovery is not only possible, but it’s
249.92 proven.
250.799 That’s just an ad. Um I’m a big believer
253.84 in in trying to do a 30-day nofap. By
256.32 the way, if you’re somebody if you’re
258.239 somebody who doesn’t feel like it’s
260.4 wrong to jerk off
262.96 and so you don’t want to quit, you
264.8 should just you should do 30 days just
267.919 to prove that you can cuz what you’re
270.639 going to find is that it’s hard and then
272.96 you and then you’re going to ask
274.08 yourself why why do I why can’t I just
276.96 not do this if I don’t want to? Well,
279.199 she has a she has a 1 million view from
281.6 two years ago. The benefits of jerking
283.919 off if you didn’t know. H is this going
287.759 to be about prostate cancer? What is
289.759 this?
290.639 So recently I found out about the
292.639 benefits of jerking off every day as
296.08 much as you possibly can. First of all,
299.36 you’ll be doing it solo and you’ll feel
301.84 so low you won’t have the motivation to
304.8 meet real people
308.479 and that’s scary.
310.56 Number two, after a few hours, you’ll
313.44 have the impulsive urge to do it again.
316.24 It just keeps coming back. And every
318.32 time you do it, you get brain fog
322.4 to remind you it’s time to do it again.
325.039 Can porn make you gay? The truth may
327.28 surprise you. All right, here here’s
329.84 here’s what we’re all here for. From
331.52 porn recovery coach to Only Fans, what
335.199 broke me? I’m honestly so scared of
337.919 making this video and I will cry. Not
341.44 because I think that I’m in the wrong,
342.8 but most of you won’t understand. As the
345.28 title of this video said, after 5 years
347.44 of teaching porn and sexual addiction,
349.36 congrats DS88. That’s awesome.
351.6 Recovery, I created and launched an only
354.08 fans. That decision has hurt a lot of
356.8 people tremendously. People have told me
359.199 that they had panic attacks, that
360.72 they’ve cried, that they felt sick, that
362.88 they were shaking. And I feel terrible
366.16 about that. But I need you to trust me
368.88 in a way. Understand that this decision
370.96 was made very, very carefully.
373.28 Understand that I have my reasons for
375.199 what I did. And even if you don’t,
377.039 I wanted more money. I wasn’t making
378.96 enough money. Guys, I have a perfectly
380.96 good reason. I am greedy. I conquered my
384.319 lust only to succumb to my greed.
386.96 Fully understand. Just hear me out. I’m
389.84 also a little emotional because it’s the
392.8 ending of an era, a beautiful era,
395.039 something that I poured my heart and
396.8 soul into. You guys haven’t seen how
399.199 much work and dedication and love I’ve
401.44 put into my business. How many 4:00 a.m.
404.08 nights I spent writing, creating
406.0 content.
406.96 I’m not leaving recovery work. I’m still
409.28 going to do that. I’m just going to
411.199 moonlight as a literal [ __ ] porn
413.84 [ __ ] It’s so crazy. taken away from
417.36 the most neurotic
419.36 [ __ ] I’ve ever seen.
420.72 Just how much has gone into it. I
423.12 literally gave my life to this cause.
425.039 I’ve given away countless free hours of
427.28 coaching, free advice, free courses
430.08 because I truly deeply cared and wanted
433.12 to change the world. And I did it in the
434.88 best possible method and way that I knew
437.039 how. And it was beautiful and I am proud
439.84 of it. But the truth is I learned things
442.24 that I can’t unlearn. I’ve seen things
444.72 that I can’t unsee and at the end of the
447.599 day there are things that need to
450.08 change. My ego wanted that method to
453.68 work. My ego wanted innocence and
456.639 idealism to win. But the last 5 years
459.52 have changed me. And the first rule of
461.52 survival is adaptability.
463.039 If you watch porn, you’re you’re you’re
464.96 owned by Jews. Okay? Watching porn is
468.24 the most submissive to Jewish thing you
471.44 can do. There’s nothing you can do that
473.44 says, « I I deserve to be controlled by
476.639 Jews more than loading up a a porn
479.44 video. » I just want you to know that. I
481.28 want you to think about that every
482.8 single time. We are in a new world and
485.52 we are playing new games. And if I want
487.84 to truly help people heal in a world
489.84 gone crazy, I have to be willing to
492.4 change. So, in this video, I’m going to
494.72 tell you everything that I learned and
497.68 everything that made me make this
499.84 switch. And I’ll even give you a little
502.0 bit of a preview into what’s coming
504.16 next. I’m excited. I’m happy for the
507.039 change. I just This is scary telling you
510.96 guys about this.
513.919 As I said before, I’ve spent months
516.0 thinking about this. In this video, I’m
517.76 probably going to go through about 40
519.279 reasons why I made this decision. So,
521.599 bear with me and I’ll try to get through
523.12 them. That way you have a complete and
525.36 well-rounded perspective of what broke,
528.56 why I changed, and where this is going.
530.88 So, let’s get into it. The first one is
532.72 that the porn industry simply isn’t
534.56 going away. We can’t go back in time.
536.56 There’s no getting rid of this. We can
538.32 only learn to adapt. Most people have
540.8 already had their brains significantly
542.399 rewired through multiple partners,
544.64 appeal to futility,
546.24 a lot of porn consumption
547.839 and and and also nonsequitator. Like you
550.8 even if porn isn’t going away, that
552.959 doesn’t mean you have to participate.
556.24 In fact, you don’t have to. You don’t
557.92 have to participate at all in the porn
560.64 industry. You can completely
563.279 forego the entire thing.
566.16 And there’s just no going back. It would
569.04 be great if we were all virgins when we
570.72 married our high school sweethearts or
572.64 first date college boyfriend,
574.399 girlfriend, and we lived happily ever
576.399 after. But that’s just not the case
577.839 anymore. And in order for a recovery
580.399 program to truly work, it has to embrace
582.64 that fact. The guilt and the shame,
584.8 that’s what ruins them. We need to
587.279 pause this. I She So, she also stopped
591.519 being a Christian, which is not
593.36 obviously not like a coincidence. You
595.44 know what I mean? A lot of the reason
596.959 people leave the church is as a cope
600.0 because they want to sin. Why is it so
602.16 quiet?
602.72 Spiritual leader. I guess when I started
604.56 my organization and I decided that it
606.399 was going to be a non-religious
607.519 organization, I didn’t realize
609.6 a literal fall from grace.
611.6 Things that I did,
612.399 she was the beast the entire time. Dude,
614.72 I it’s I haven’t turned up as loud as it
616.72 goes. This is like unwatchable. Embrace
619.2 the beast. At least she’s getting cooked
621.2 in the comments.
622.399 Feel guilt and that it’s okay. That
624.959 actually helps you become at peace with
627.36 where you’ve been rather than just
629.2 shaming you that it was bad and teaching
630.959 you self-discipline. A lot of people
633.04 need to be rewired back to something
634.8 natural. And that’s a hard truth. People
638.16 are watching some crazy stuff nowadays.
640.0 We’re watching furries. We’re watching
641.76 just insane violent um crazy crazy stuff
646.16 online. AI stuff. I mean, the technology
648.88 side of this is just going bonkers. And
652.079 I think a lot of people actually need
654.0 rewiring back to something natural,
656.56 something safe, something healthy. And
659.04 while I could keep going and just
660.56 shaming people into like stop all of it
662.64 and just be normal, it wasn’t working.
664.8 People need a guide to help them get
666.399 back to something healthier before they
669.44 can quit altogether and find a partner.
672.56 So that being said, standard recovery
674.48 methods simply don’t work for most men.
676.64 So we’re going to work with what we’ve
677.839 got and we’re going to make it better,
679.519 but we can’t get in a time machine.
681.279 Simple reality is more than 60% of men
684.0 don’t want to quit this addiction. small
685.76 percentage like 30 to 40% would like to
688.56 reduce their use. And some men feel
691.519 guilty, but they really just want to get
692.88 rid of their guilt. They don’t actually
694.16 want to quit. So, if you’re watching,
695.839 you know, 60% of heroin addicts don’t
698.079 want to quit heroin. And so, I’ve
700.8 decided to become a dealer. I’ve decided
703.04 to start selling heroin because, you
705.6 know,
706.8 I have good quality control. She She
709.519 wanted money. That’s You’re not You’re
711.76 not going to convince me. Also, I think
715.68 if I was going to psychoanalyze it a
717.76 little bit beyond she just wanted the
719.92 money and she she knew she had like a
722.48 following of like guys who would who
724.959 have been watching her videos. Guys have
727.279 been watching her videos who struggle
729.12 with porn addiction. She’s cute. So,
731.76 she’s like, if I make a porn, all these
733.6 guys are going to instantly sign up.
735.12 They, you know, they’ve already been
736.56 like jerking off thinking about me.
738.16 Like, I’m just going to make a bunch of
739.36 money easy as soon as I put this up.
741.92 This would be an interesting video. I
743.36 don’t have time to sit here and watch
744.48 like hours of this woman’s [ __ ] But I
746.16 do think her like ending her celibacy
748.8 maybe rewired her brain and made her go
751.2 kind of crazy
752.48 this video and you’re like, « Oh my gosh,
753.6 I can’t believe she’s doing this
754.72 horrible thing. » Don’t go to that page.
756.0 Don’t participate in the things that I’m
757.12 teaching. That’s okay. You go back to
758.8 your absence streak. But if you aren’t
760.88 on an abstinence streak, maybe there’s a
762.8 reason. And maybe I have truths to teach
764.8 you. Just maybe. Don’t shame me for what
767.44 I’m doing. If you don’t like it, don’t
768.959 participate. But don’t make me the
770.8 villain next. Maybe as a female, I was
773.76 never meant to lead men. I accept that.
776.399 It’s been an uphill battle as a
777.92 business. It’s been an uphill battle for
779.76 me personally.
780.72 Right. So based and true, you’re not
783.44 meant to lead men as a female. If you’re
785.839 trying to quit gooning, why would you go
787.44 to an attractive woman and be like,
789.6 « She’s going to help me stop jerking
791.36 off. I’m just going to watch her videos
793.36 every day and it’s the whole idea is
796.24 bad. » But very telling. She said, « It’s
799.279 been an uphill battle as a business. I
801.92 believe that obviously the YouTube
803.68 channel itself isn’t that big. So she
806.48 couldn’t, you know, I don’t know how
808.079 many courses she was selling. I saw
809.68 somebody in the chat saying it’s
810.8 probably true. She was probably getting
812.56 messages from dudes being like, « If you
815.12 made an Only Fans, I’ll pay you like
817.279 hundreds of dollars a month or
818.88 whatever. »
819.44 Everyone always asks, « How often do your
821.36 clients fall for you? How often do they
823.2 develop emotional attachments? » Too
824.72 often. Okay, that’s the honest answer. I
827.2 didn’t want to face it before. I didn’t
828.8 want to accept it. We all knew it was
830.639 true from the very beginning. It’s
832.079 painful. It makes me sad. I wish I was a
834.56 dude. I wish I had a dude’s face. I
836.32 don’t. I’m sorry. I never will. That
839.199 being said, in some ways, I’m going to
840.8 focus on what I can do as a woman in
843.6 recovery coaching. I’m ready to fully
846.24 embrace my own sexuality in front of all
848.88 of you guys. Yes, I am a sexual woman.
851.76 Hello. Okay. You You think I’m pretty?
854.0 Cool. That’s fine. We can all be at
856.0 peace with it and then we can move on
857.36 and be logical about our sexuality and
859.68 make good, rational, healthy choices.
861.92 I have some logical ideas for good,
864.48 rational, healthy. Why don’t you go find
866.8 a husband? Okay. Mar go find a man,
870.48 marry him, have a family, and keep your
873.04 sexuality, private, and between you and
876.16 your husband. That sounds kind of good
878.24 and healthy to me. Or you could charge
880.88 people money to see your butthole on the
883.279 internet. I had to come to terms with
884.8 that and I think anyone who works with
886.959 me or joins either side of this program
890.16 should also be able to come to terms.
891.68 Does being married make it I mean I
894.399 think obviously it’s easier if you’re
897.199 married. There’s first of all you’re not
899.76 going through big dry spells of of
902.88 non-intimacy and second of all you’re
906.0 probably going to feel even more shame
908.16 and guilt if you do that stuff. So I
910.639 mean I think I think obviously it helps.
912.399 Yeah. with them. I spent the last 5
914.399 years pretty debilitatingly afraid of
916.399 the fact that I would be sexual.
918.399 Just just try not to use that as an
920.8 excuse. Try I I don’t like the I’ll quit
924.399 when I’m married. I’ll stop I’ll stop
926.399 watching porn after I get married. Like
929.519 will you will you if you can stop after
932.399 you’re married? You can stop now. Food
935.04 for thought. Something to think about.
937.36 If you can’t stop now, if you’ve tried
939.68 and you’ve struggled, what makes you
941.44 think you can stop when you’re married?
943.839 My advice is to get it under wraps now.
947.76 And now I’m just saying, « All right, the
948.88 heck of the game. I don’t care. It’s
950.8 fine. » The next one is that I have
952.639 worked with all religions and there’s
956.24 just things that I can’t unsee. People
957.92 who are religious have stronger
960.079 addictions and that’s because the number
962.24 one thing that fuels porn addiction is
964.639 not beautiful women. you know, when you
966.56 start building a business, you expect it
968.399 to start off slow. But you’re like, if I
970.0 if I work at this, I’ll make lots of
971.92 money down the road or whatever. And I
973.68 just think she never really got where
975.199 she was hoping to go. And that probably
977.44 is like really just the biggest piece of
980.24 the puzzle right there. She’s just like
981.839 wants more money.
983.36 It’s actually just guilt and shame.
985.279 Guilt and shame is
986.639 right. So why people are addicted to
989.199 porn is guilt and shame. I actually
991.279 really disagree with this. I don’t know.
993.92 as somebody who feels a good amount of
996.32 guilt and shame if he if he jerks off.
999.12 The the idea that that is what makes me
1002.399 want to jerk off is very that’s like a
1004.399 weird porn brain take. This is this is
1007.44 like a what progressives say. This is
1009.279 what sex positive therapists say is like
1012.48 oh the reason you goon so much is
1014.399 because
1015.6 you have a sense of shame there. There’s
1017.839 no studies that exist that show that
1020.8 that shame has like a negative effect,
1023.04 right? Like there’s the there’s no
1025.199 studies that where they’ve like looked
1027.039 at outcomes of people who masturbate
1029.76 versus people who don’t or people who
1031.919 feel shame versus people who don’t. That
1034.24 doesn’t exist anywhere. And there’s
1035.919 definitely no evidence that that can
1038.0 link the shame to that it’s like harder
1041.28 to quit or anything like that.
1043.28 Porn addiction is not beautiful women is
1046.48 not the need for something novel. It’s
1048.799 actually just
1051.679 the beast. I didn’t realize that when I
1053.84 started this organization. I thought it
1055.36 was our conscience and God and biology
1057.919 and technology
1059.84 shame. It’s not good for you. It’s bad
1061.919 for your brain. No, it’s literally just
1064.88 guilt and shame. I knew this early on
1066.96 when I started Fight the Beast. I
1068.24 decided that I didn’t want it to be a
1069.44 religious
1070.0 She just became a progressive. She just
1072.16 she just decided that guilt and shame
1074.24 are social constructs that are enforced
1076.559 on you by society and and that they that
1080.0 they like if you if you just stop having
1083.28 shame then it’s no longer wrong what
1086.559 you’re doing. Apply that to anything
1088.64 else. Apply that to literally anything
1091.76 else. Oh, murder. No, man. The reason
1095.44 you don’t want to commit murder is just
1097.039 a sense of guilt and shame. But that’s
1099.2 just your [ __ ] conscious, man. That
1101.84 society brainwashed you into having you.
1105.2 This only gets applied to sexual
1107.52 deviency. Really, the idea that like
1110.0 guilt and shame are these bad social
1112.64 constructs that you just need to ignore
1114.48 and then everything’s fine. That only
1116.32 gets applied to sexual deviency and
1118.48 literally nothing else.
1120.559 Program because I saw that religious and
1122.559 12step programs were less effective. So,
1125.12 I made my program non-religious, but its
1127.919 root was still the same.
1129.2 I don’t know about that. Isn’t AA is uh
1132.4 religious? And it’s kind of like the
1134.16 most of I maybe that’s true. I have no
1136.4 idea.
1137.44 This is bad for you. Which led to
1139.679 kind of dubious though. Influence of
1141.44 religiosity on 12step participation.
1145.039 Religious practices among adults are
1146.88 associated with more 12step
1148.88 participation, which in turn is linked
1151.12 to better treatment outcomes. findings
1154.16 extend the evidence for the protective
1156.32 effects of lifetime religious behaviors
1158.559 to an improved treatment response among
1160.88 adolescence and provide preliminary
1162.64 support for the 12step proposition that
1164.799 helping others in recovery may lead to
1167.039 better outcomes. Youth with low or no
1169.52 lifetime religious practices may
1171.2 assimilate less well. So, this is the
1173.28 exact opposite of what she’s saying.
1175.2 It’s literally the exact opposite. Maybe
1177.2 you can find contradicting studies,
1180.72 but uh it’s a it’s a dubious, you know,
1183.679 it it doesn’t sound right. It sounds
1186.24 counterintuitive when you say religion
1188.88 doesn’t help you quit gooning. So, I’d
1191.76 take that with a grain of salt.
1193.76 And shame when people relapse, they felt
1195.84 weak. I am now removing all guilt and
1198.4 shame literally by putting myself on the
1200.559 chopping block to say, « Hey, I’m not
1203.28 going to show up guilty or ashamed. I
1205.52 don’t want you to show up guilty or
1206.88 shamed anymore either. We are all going
1208.64 to embrace our biology in this program
1211.2 moving forward. I’m okay with my
1212.88 biology.
1213.36 We’re going to embrace our bi. It’s not
1214.96 about what you want. It’s not a question
1217.28 of like like a choice. It’s not supposed
1220.24 to be a choice. God gave you a conscious
1222.799 for a reason.
1223.919 I’m okay with my own sexual power. You
1226.08 should be okay with your own biology and
1228.24 your own feelings of lust and desire.
1230.559 They’re okay. Okay. I’m tired of making
1234.08 people feel bad about that. I’ve been
1235.84 making that change for a few months now,
1237.6 but I’m making it more seriously now.
1240.96 The next problem
1242.08 and now you can buy my porn. Like it
1245.36 it’s such a crazy extreme. Like even if
1247.679 you agreed with what she’s saying, which
1248.96 I don’t at all. I don’t agree at all
1250.88 with what she’s saying. Lust is
1252.72 definitely a problem. I’ve seen so many
1255.12 people have their lives ruined because
1257.36 they couldn’t control their lust. even
1259.12 like even from a purely pragmatic
1261.28 viewpoint
1262.159 is that men who recover
1264.0 marriage is destroyed
1266.159 often feel pretty lost like the dating
1269.12 pool sucks and I get that and just
1272.08 because you quit porn does not mean
1273.919 you’re going to find a partner and even
1275.76 though I’ve helped a lot of men reach 30
1277.6 days clean 6 months clean a year clean
1281.039 they often come back and ask the
1282.32 question now what I never get to see any
1285.84 feminine beauty ever again like I never
1288.48 get sex ever again. And honestly, it
1291.039 really hurts my heart. And I think you
1293.52 can only look into the eyes of about a
1295.919 thousand men who are emotionally
1299.12 hurting, whose wife,
1301.84 just just remember that for,
1304.64 you know, 10,000 years of human history.
1308.08 For the vast majority of human history,
1310.24 people did not have access to hardcore
1313.679 graphic internet pornography. And men
1317.039 just live their lives. You know what I
1319.28 mean? Oh, if you don’t get to see naked
1321.44 women getting railed by other dudes,
1323.76 what a tragedy. It It’s literally going
1326.48 to bring me to tears that you should be
1328.96 denied that. Like, you shouldn’t even
1331.44 have access to that to begin with, bro.
1335.44 That shouldn’t even be on the table.
1337.84 Are withholding. There are situations
1340.08 where they can’t date before you
1342.08 understand. And you have compassion. And
1344.0 I think that compassion You guys can
1346.32 call it sin. You can be like, « Oh man,
1347.76 she’s going to the dark side. » No. Like,
1349.679 it hurts to look into that many men’s
1352.32 eyes to know that they’re hurting. And
1354.64 I’ve gotten off calls and just wanted to
1356.48 cry because I tried to be strong on the
1359.2 call. And I was like, « No, keep going.
1360.88 Like, don’t do anything. Like, you got
1362.96 this. » And just knowing that like
1364.96 they’re dying inside because their
1366.64 biology, their soul, their spirit craves
1369.12 that feminine beauty craves that
1370.799 feminine love and there’s no one to give
1372.559 it to them. something that’s supposed to
1374.32 lift you up. And in a way, I I could be
1378.159 here, but I want to help people get back
1380.64 to that.
1381.12 So, the screenshots have been going to
1383.52 get back to the idea of guiding mouses
1386.159 into somebody that you honor and
1388.0 respect.
1388.4 Worst person I’ve ever seen,
1389.679 not somebody that’s dehumanizing.
1392.64 Stop lying. It’s because you want money.
1395.44 The social media to prostitution
1397.44 pipeline is crazy. The the the comments
1400.4 are very white pilling. My AA leader
1403.28 runs a homemade brewery. She makes the
1405.28 best beer. Going from rehabbing addicts
1407.6 to selling them drugs and exploiting
1409.6 weakness for your own personal gain. Are
1412.88 you a bad person because of this?
1414.88 Probably. The fact you built your
1416.799 channel helping people overcome a strong
1418.559 addiction and then you feed them that
1420.0 very same addiction is disgusting. You
1422.159 should be ashamed. Hey, what up famama
1424.72 Ding-Dong? It is I, your boy LP, and the
1427.36 clip you just watched is from my live
1429.039 stream show, The Daily Cope, which I do
1431.28 four to five times a week on Rumble,
1433.76 Odyssey, and my other YouTube channel. I
1436.24 will link all of them below if you want
1438.4 to check it out. And thanks for
1439.919 watching. Hope you’re having a great
1441.12 day, and I will catch you on the flip
1443.28 side. Peace out.
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