Castità; Élu – Chapitre 68 – Questions difficiles sur la chasteté

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La chasteté masculine contrôlée est une pratique bien connue. Cela inclut généralement l’utilisation d’outils comme des cages de chasteté. La gestion des pulsions sexuelles permet de diriger l’énergie vers d’autres objectifs.

Dans la chasteté masculine contrôlée, un homme limite ses activités sexuelles à l’aide d’accessoires spécialisés, tels que les cages de chasteté, dont il confie le contrôle à un partenaire. Voici certains aspects de cette pratique : La question de la chasteté controlée est examinée de manière approfondiedans ce dossier qui aborde le sujet de la chasteté controlée.

La chasteté contrôlée présente plusieurs avantages importants.

Le choix de la chasteté contrôlée procure un sentiment de quiétude. La personne en chasteté contrôlée se sent encadrée et détachée des préoccupations affectives. Son parcours est encadré, il ne lui reste qu’à se conformer à la discipline fixée. En éliminant certaines tentations, les hommes peuvent réduire leur distraction par des pensées sexuelles. La pornographie et les rencontres amoureuses représentent des industries qui sollicitent constamment les individus. La baisse de l’activité sexuelle peut favoriser des relations plus significatives et plus profondes. Cela génère des opportunités inédites. Cela permet de démarrer des projets et de se focaliser sur de nouveaux défis.

Techniques et approches de la chasteté masculine contrôlée :

Accessoires de chasteté : En utilisant une cage de chasteté, on peut physiquement restreindre la manipulation ou la masturbation du pénis. La cage symbolise la prise de contrôle des pulsions par le partenaire, maître ou maîtresse.Confiance avec un partenaire : Une confiance authentique et un abandon au pouvoir de l’autre sont essentiels pour que la chasteté contrôlée soit effective. Celui qui contrôle la clé de la cage ou enferme le pénis devient un mandataire, gérant la libido et les préoccupations qui en découlent. Pour une chasteté contrôlée réussie, il est préférable que la clé soit confiée à une personne extérieure impartiale. Des sexologues et coachs qualifiés proposent leurs services pour la chasteté contrôlée avec des garanties contractuelles. Certains « keyholders » bénévoles peuvent aussi gérer la chasteté, mais leur intérêt principal est leur satisfaction personnelle.

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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: you one of the most common questions we get is hey you know if I’m doing this my girlfriend are we going too far if I do that with my boyfriend and we going too far the problem is really not that you’re going too far the problem is that you’re not going nearly far enough because the gift of our sexuality is not meant to be given in bits and pieces like girls don’t just give your body to your boyfriend on the night of homecoming because you’ve dated for eight months and you hope he’s gonna stick around through college you know don’t just give him your body temporarily give him your body your heart your soul your children let him give you his last name let him give you his paychecks let him give you a house let him give you every breath he takes until the day that he dies this is what’s meant by a total gift of self and that’s too much for the guy that you’re with and it seems like he might want something other than the gift of you maybe just a gift of pleasure and so the problem is not that our desires are too strong more often than not our desires are kind of too weak in fact if you look at what the wedding vows are supposed to be with sexuality free total faithful and life-giving well what happens when you turn that upside down you get our modern society I mean look at sex today it’s not free it’s paid for in prostitution it’s demanded in rape it’s addictions it’s not a free gift it’s not a total gift it’s hooking up friends with benefits it’s not a faithful gift you got infidelity and cheating it’s not a fruitful gift it’s deliberately sterilized contraceptive and aborted it’s almost as if God had this beautiful vision of love it’s a beautiful picture and the world just turns it backwards and to pull out even just one or two of these pieces is like pulling out a leg of a chair and look how it works with different sexual acts look at premarital sex okay is it a free gift well more often than not it’s dictated by a lot of hormones is it a total gift well we hope it works out but am I not you know is it a faithful gift it is a life-giving gift and more often than not the couples are scared to death to get pregnant and so premarital sex misses the point of the wedding vows you could also consider the problem with something like pornography is it free well no it’s usually paid for it’s usually dictated by hormones and a dish is it a total gift of self well no I mean nobody’s giving themselves in pornography you’re not even dealing with the real woman I mean you’re dealing with the piece of paper of a picture of or you’re dealing with pixels on a TV screen or a laptop it’s not faithful she’s not any more faithful to me than she is the 10 million other guys lusting after her is it fruitful obviously not it’s totally sterile in fact see as Lewis had said that it’s a pretty unfortunate expression when we say that a man who’s lusting after one wants a woman he said a woman is precisely what he does not want the woman is just the means by which he’s trying to get what he truly wants and he said his real level of love for her can be gauged by how much interest he has in her after he gets what he wants and he said a person does not keep the carton after they smoke a pack of cigarettes and he said when a person lusts they don’t want truly a woman but with love you truly desire your beloved and not merely the pleasure that she can give to you and a lot of people think well you know I’ll just throw it away when I get married you know it’s all gonna be good because you know marriage will be the fulfillment of that yeah did marriage is not the fulfillment of porn porn is the distortion of all human love look at other sexual acts such as masturbation obviously it’s not free total faithful or life-giving and misses it on all four accounts you could look something like a contraception or birth control is it a total gift no you hold back your Parenthood is it a fruitful gift no it’s deliberately contraceptive and sterilized and people for centuries have been trying to separate what God has joined making love with making life trying to separate the two of these they did this thousands of years ago ancient cultures used to fumigate a woman’s uterus with smoke so she wouldn’t have children to bind her uterus tightly never swallowing potions of sterility it’s like they didn’t even care about the woman’s health it’s the same today birth control pills increase your risk of getting breast cancer when a woman takes birth control she has over a hundred and fifty physiological changes in her body I mean her cornea of her eye gets steeper and one study said women on birth control blink 32% more often than girls not on birth control I’ve said that at high school sometimes and you look around and girls are looking at look she’s on birth control the girls like no I’m not stop guys what do you do what are you doing stop looking the fact that this is not how our bodies are supposed to function God has already created your body perfectly and we shouldn’t look at pregnancy as some kind of disease and some people say well you can’t be naive I mean teenagers today they’re gonna do it anyway you need to tell them to use protection have safe sex do you realize how degrading this is to women telling them if they’re having safe sex as long as they don’t get pregnant or get some sexually transmitted disease you know a woman happens to be more than her sexual organs and safe sex reduces it to that as long as we protect that part of her she’s safe no she’s not she has a heart she has a soul if you really care about the woman protect the entire person and safe sex is not gonna do that and another tough moral issue to tackle is that of homosexuality because if the sexual act is supposed to be free total faithful and fruitful or life-giving or ordered towards having children homosexuality obviously those acts are not ordered towards the creation of children you can’t make a total gift of your body to another and so what are we to say if you’re a person like me who has friends who have homosexual attractions I mean what are they to do is there a place for them within the church absolutely the world will tell them you only got two options you know you need to either hide in the closet we’d be out of fear that if anybody knew your real identity they would hate you and be bigoted against you or if you don’t like that then come out of the closet embrace your sexual identity and do whatever it is you choose that do and the church says no there happens to be a third option which means you acknowledge that you have same-sex attractions you can share that information with ever you choose and you don’t need to be ashamed of who you’re attracted to because it’s not like that’s something that’s entirely under our control what we are in control of is what we do with those attractions now Mother Teresa was getting interviewed on all kinds of different moral issues and someone said to her what about the homosexuals and the homosexuals and she stopped and she said I don’t like the word homosexual and their mother Teresa hates gays and she said no no from now on you are going to refer to them as friends of Jesus now go on is it okay well with regard to them the Friends of Jesus here in Calcutta but what a beautiful way to look at them that they’re just like us with all of our struggles with all of our brokenness all the difficulty we all have trusting in God’s plan for our lives and so when it comes to homosexuality the whole idea of chastity by the world is not even offered to them is an option to find fulfillment because in the end to tell these people look I love you I’m tolerant you can do whatever you want this is a false form of compassion to lead people to believe that they’re gonna find ultimate fulfillment by just giving in to their instincts instead of following the will of God and this is a difficult thing for them the difficult thing for us but if we truly love them we’ll call them to practice this virtue and within it they can find freedom and peace in fact I know a guy who lived in an actively gay life for years and he said after years of that lifestyle it dawned on him that he was not homosexual he said you know what I discovered I was homo emotional he said I was longing to be held by a man to be affirmed by a man to give him the attention and the approval the affection that I just never got for my own father and he said all the world taught me to do was sexualize my problems and look for the solution there but now that he’s practicing the virtue of chastity and purity he’s found real fulfilment and I’m not going to imply from that that anybody who has homosexual attractions has a terrible relationship with her father I mean obviously that would be a stretch but in the end we are in control of how we choose to live and God calls these individuals to a life of purity and we better love them we better respect them we better treat them with dignity and part of that dignity is calling them to live in the image and likeness of God so in the end the Christian sexual idea of morality is not about saying a bunch of nose ultimately it’s about giving an emphatic yes the God’s plan for our lives to really say Lord are you Lord of my entire life because if you are then I’m gonna trust you and follow your will because the end look we’re made in the image and likeness of God we’re not like the animals they have no control of whether or not they obey their instincts fulfill their nature we’re not like that maybe you don’t expect a dog to act in a moral way it’s ridiculous it’s not like you have some dog during mating season sitting there thinking now wait a minute you know does this Rottweiler already have a girlfriend is this even the right dog for me what would this dog’s mom think you know am I ready for 14 puppies I mean it’s laughable because we know they’re not capable of living a moral life but we’re different we’re made in the image and likeness of God and if we live like that and we love like that we’ll have peace like nothing the earth can offer us [Music] .

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0.05 our brokenness all the difficulty we all
0.05 have trusting in God&;s plan for our
0.05 lives and so when it comes to
0.05 homosexuality the whole idea of chastity
0.05 by the world is not even offered to them
0.05 is an option to find fulfillment because
0.05 in the end to tell these people look I
0.05 love you I&;m tolerant you can do
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0.05 that they&;re gonna find ultimate
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0.05 we truly love them we&;ll call them to
0.05 practice this virtue and within it they
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0.05 life for years and he said after years
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0.05 he was not homosexual he said you know
0.05 what I discovered I was homo emotional
0.05 he said I was longing to be held by a
0.05 man to be affirmed by a man to give him
0.05 the attention and the approval the
0.05 affection that I just never got for my
0.05 own father and he said all the world
0.05 taught me to do was sexualize my
0.05 problems and look for the solution there
0.05 but now that he&;s practicing the virtue
0.05 of chastity and purity he&;s found real
0.05 fulfilment and I&;m not going to imply
0.05 from that that anybody who has
0.05 homosexual attractions has a terrible
0.05 relationship with her father I mean
0.05 obviously that would be a stretch but in
0.05 the end we are in control of how we
0.05 choose to live and God calls these
0.05 individuals to a life of purity and we
0.05 better love them we better respect them
0.05 we better treat them with dignity and
0.05 part of that dignity is calling them to
0.05 live in the image and likeness of God so
0.05 in the end the Christian sexual idea of
0.05 morality is not about saying a bunch of
0.05 nose ultimately it&;s about giving an
0.05 emphatic yes the God&;s plan for our
0.05 lives to really say Lord are you Lord of
0.05 my entire life because if you are then
0.05 I&;m gonna trust you and follow your will
0.05 because the end look we&;re made in the
0.05 image and likeness of God we&;re not like
0.05 the animals they have no control of
0.05 whether or not they obey their instincts
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0.05 sitting there thinking now wait a minute
0.05 you know does this Rottweiler already
0.05 have a girlfriend is this even the right
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0.05 think you know am I ready for 14 puppies
0.05 I mean it&;s laughable because we know
0.05 they&;re not capable of living a moral
0.05 life but we&;re different we&;re made in
0.05 the image and likeness of God and if we
0.05 live like that and we love like that
0.05 we&;ll have peace like nothing the earth
0.05 can offer us
0.05 [Music]
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