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La vidéo a une durée de 00:10:36 secondes, un titre de Porn: Addiction or Solution? (ENGLISH responses) et est présentée par [vid_author_name]. Voici la description correspondante :« La psychosexualité du narcissique: de la fantaisie à la déviance et au-delà (réponses anglaises) – partie 7 des 22 questions (traduites du Hongrois) 7. Un narcissique peut-il arrêter le porno et la masturbation par lui-même, ou est-ce une contrainte? Quel est l’aspect psychologique de cela? 8. Ce que j’ai également vécu dans mon entraîneur Praxis, c’est que la vie sexuelle d’un narcissique est différente dans la vingtaine, les années 30, 40, 50 ou 60 et plus. J’ai observé que le comportement compulsif et la dépendance sont généralement déjà développés par la mi-trentaine. Dans la trentaine, les fétiches de déviance sexuelle et la sexualité extrême jouent un rôle important dans leur vie. Par exemple, le BDSM, les averses dorées ou la coprophilie (urine ou le plaisir lié aux excréments), la pédophilie, l’hébephilie (sexe avec les adolescents précoces), l’homosexualité latente ou ouverte, le sexe d’échappement (sexe de groupe), le transvesttisme, la féminisation, le sexe forcé, etc. Mais pour l’instant, pourriez-vous s’il vous plaît nous dire comment cela est lié à l’âge? La liste de lecture de la sexualité du narcissique https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=plsh_y_ett4o0ik4zrgezzrk0s6mrktltx narcisz coach canal https://www.youtube.com/channel/ucck99bt2hoyoard42sx8h7q (tagstotranslate) sexe ».
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Structurer une approche efficace pour gérer le processus de sevrage
Développer des moyens pour limiter les envies
Il est essentiel de comprendre les facteurs déclencheurs et d’adopter des stratégies comme la TCC, la pratique d’activités saines et l’implication dans une communauté soutenante.
Concevoir un environnement adapté au repos
Limiter l’accès aux sites pornographiques à l’aide d’extensions de navigateur ou d’applications de contrôle parental est une stratégie de protection. En parallèle, intégrer des activités constructives dans son quotidien peut aider à canaliser les pulsions.
Fixer des intentions claires et accessibles
Un plan de sevrage efficace commence par des objectifs précis, comme diminuer progressivement le temps de consommation de porno. La réflexion sur les raisons sous-jacentes à l’addiction et sur les bénéfices d’une vie sans porno est indispensable.
Se réinventer en abandonnant la consommation de pornographie
Investir dans des pratiques saines pour une meilleure qualité de vie
Cultiver des habitudes enrichissantes, comme la méditation ou le yoga, soutient l’équilibre entre le corps et l’esprit et diminue les pulsions irréfléchies
Créer des relations équilibrées améliore la qualité de vie
Développer une connexion authentique avec un partenaire enrichit la vie sexuelle et remplace les fantasmes numériques
Adopter une approche éthique de la sexualité
Une sexualité éthique repose sur l’égalité, le consentement et la responsabilité, pour une vie intime épanouie Se défaire de la pornographie demande un travail de conscience, des outils spécifiques et un soutien constant. En suivant une approche structurée, il est possible de surmonter cette dépendance et de se reconnecter à une sexualité plus saine et respectueuse. Des ressources numériques, comme des applications de suivi, sont aussi efficaces (voir ce leader pour la chasteté masculine contrôlée).
Se tourner vers les diverses formes d’assistance disponibles
Prendre part à des sessions de soutien collectif
Participer à un groupe de soutien permet aux personnes de partager leurs défis, d’apprendre des méthodes efficaces et de bénéficier de la solidarité d’autres individus en rétablissement.
Utiliser des ressources numériques et applications pour assurer un suivi
Grâce aux outils numériques et aux applications, il est possible de suivre l’évolution, de recevoir des rappels motivants et de renforcer les habitudes saines pour réduire l’accès à des contenus pornographiques.
Se faire accompagner par un spécialiste en santé mentale
Consulter un spécialiste des dépendances comportementales, tel un psychologue formé à la TCC, aide à comprendre les causes profondes et offre un suivi personnalisé.
Cerner les origines de l’addiction à la pornographie
Repérer les symptômes de dépendance
L’addiction à la pornographie se traduit par un usage incontrôlé et répétitif, souvent source de culpabilité et de frustration, impactant négativement la vie personnelle et professionnelle.
Étudier les conséquences du porno sur la gestion de la vie personnelle
L’addiction peut modifier les dynamiques des relations sexuelles, nuire à la confiance personnelle et entraver la création de liens affectifs profonds. L’utilisation excessive de contenus pornographiques peut favoriser une dépendance émotionnelle étroitement liée à ces images
Observer les mécanismes cognitifs et émotionnels
La libération de dopamine en réponse à la pornographie renforce un schéma addictif dans le cerveau, qui peut générer de la honte, de la frustration et un mal-être durable.
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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: let’s Okutama gotta read narcisstic usha for nose aspiration was to Valastro but is not okay in suresh bein a cop see who’ll only respect osha for constant consumption of porn is an addiction similar to any addiction like alcoholism drug abuse it has a compulsive element in the sense that the narcissist needs to not only nicest any porn any porn addict needs the pornography the same way that a drug addict needs a drug or and colic needs a shot and so on and so forth so there’s nothing different about this and the question is generalized can an addict quit an addiction and the answer is yes of course any addict can quit an addiction the prognosis is not good with said division is very high in the sense that an addict that who quits an addiction usually has remission or relapse and returns to the addiction very common 80% of alcoholics return to alcohol after they have quit alcohol for example that’s 80% within one year so porn addiction is the same that English porn addiction is it it it’s multi-dimensional it provides answers to many problems and many questions it provides fees it has a physiological aspect but also a psychological aspect and its source it solves relationship problems for example imagine that the the narcissus does not want to cheat it’s afraid to lose his partner the pawn is a solution so pawn comes handy its instrumental and so the chances or likelihood of a porn addict ceasing to consume porn it’s very low because porn has no stigma stigma helps a lot and also porn doesn’t lead to adverse sequences if you get drunk you can end up having unprotected sex with a stranger and then you get sexually transmitted disease and then you can die if it’s AIDS I mean the risks are high it’s a reckless behavior to drink drink is also a social dimension most drinking is social actually so people drink in society so when they get drunk they can do stupid things if they do stupid things with the boss I mean the next day they’re fired so alcohol has can have serious consequences and drug of drugs of course you can end up with the wrong people with the wrong place in the wrong cemetery so these are problems a porn is a solitary a solitary activity with zero risk in effect only benefits so the cost the cost of porn is zero the benefits are total and this there is no social stigma if you if you are an alcoholic many people will look at you like that if you’re a drug addict of course including the police will not be happy but if you are if you consume about everyone consumes bone it’s the thing everyone does it so the incentives to give up porn are very close to zero the social incentives individual incentives and so the prognosis of giving up on porn addiction are very dim I don’t think it’s Cynthia no proxy sonmanto Pastor Tom Miko’s Baron artistic Osho cut culture Tom would mash mash a sexuality Sheila Tate who saj Hartmann Josh Ned vanish vanish hot wash away Bini aru but often artistic Uche nach Hause vidya Temecula Hartmann Toshiba coos appear Mr Al toulebonne Keala cool Akane’s Rishikesh a fugu chic norm interceded by Mark como is Sarah pet cop not now Lucas actual is debby on geography et shack was extreme sexual attachment Wadala BDSM erroneous shoe byaku pro philia Azurill a caricature otters airbase attack the pedophilia epithelium your teenager a carvalho sex a lot engineered homosexuality a swinger she goes to bash sex it is mush famine is a co poor set sexist in Tatar Tosic quiche of care does like mad coolin coolin ish has accrued ocular allagash sexually so cash accrual de de Guzman dare care Lockwood who don’t forget Cecile at Quora first of all thank you very much for the arousing and exciting list I would like to have a copy later if you don’t mind it’s related to age because narcissism changes with age all narcissists and all narcissism has a very pronounced antisocial component kind of psychopathic component and say copper thei this psychopathic component has to do with novelty seeking dominance seeking risk-taking defiance especially defiance of authority and accepted social mores and conventions laws and this together they are the antisocial dimension of narcissism now exactly like psychopathy proper exactly like antisocial personality disorder the antisocial dimension of narcissism Peaks is it a maximum when the narcissist is between 35 and 40 and after age 40 it goes down and vanishes completely by age 45 50 by age 45 50 the gnosis doesn’t have any more anti-social elements in his narcissism and by the way majority of psychopaths are not psychopaths anymore by age 45 50 it’s the same with borderline 50% of all people diagnosed with borderline personality disorder after age 35 50 they lose the diagnosis they are no longer borderline Oh cluster B person cluster B disorders have a lifecycle which is age related and they diminish and and literally disappear after typically age 40 45 so this would explain this what you have described behaviors which have to do with risk with dominance with defiance with aggression antisocial behaviors behaviors which have to do with subjugation of other people with the humanization of rectification all these behaviors which are essentially psychopathic behaviors they would peak in the 30s up to age 40 in the narcissus no the thing with the narcissus is that once he had developed this set of behaviors they had become what we call default based behaviors they are the behaviors that he knows he doesn’t know anything else and even though he doesn’t have the impulses anymore he doesn’t have the urges anymore that’s the only thing he knows he’s only six that’s how he does six he doesn’t know better so he continues these behaviors but they provide less and less reward they are less less and less pleasant or less and less rewarding because the urges are not there he just does it automatically because that’s what he does it’s like someone who when he was very young was hitting only caviar so when he grows up eh on the caviar and gradually it’s you know it’s not tasty anymore not interesting anymore but he doesn’t know he never heard of braids they never heard of sausages he just knows coming out so continue straight coming out all his life it’s the same with the gnosis so massagist after age 40 are what we call sex discrepant their sexual practices do not provide sexual pleasure and gratification and fulfillment so they because of that they escalate they they’re like drug addicts first you take one shot and two shots in six shots to get the same effect so they escalate the sexual behavior to try to recoup or recapture the initial effect that they had whenever thirties when when the gnosis is thirty he has his first golden shower and it’s the most amazing stunning thing in the world and he remembers this he remembers this but then he’s 50 and he has a golden shower and it’s nothing except wet towels no and and he says wait a minute maybe golden shower is not enough we have to escalate and radicalize the behavior maybe have to make it more kinky maybe we have to make it many many times maybe have to make it in a group maybe so he tries to he tries to improvise on the basic behavior he tries to augment it he tries to embellish it and decorate it and ornament it so that it recaptures the original excitement but he always fails so as he fails he gravitates to more and more extreme behaviors more extreme behaviors so if he was into discipline for example in his 30s so as a discipline in his thirties a slap on the face would obtain the result by the time he’s 50 or 60 he would demand extreme whipping extreme spanking blood drawing being hanged you know shibungi he would he would we would go to extremes it’s still the same cycle dynamic phenomenon but he would need to escalate to to exactly a drug addict to recapture there and and it will never happen again he will never recapture again so narcissistic constantly sexually frustrated and and at the end of life many of them withdraw completely they become schizoid and they completely withdraw from society from people from sex from for everything because of this anyhow that’s the age the age cycle .
Déroulement de la vidéo:
18.35 let’s Okutama gotta read narcisstic usha
21.18 for nose aspiration was to Valastro but
23.55 is not okay in suresh bein a cop see
26.13 who’ll only respect osha for constant
32.369 consumption of porn is an addiction
34.94 similar to any addiction like alcoholism
38.01 drug abuse it has a compulsive element
41.64 in the sense that the narcissist needs
44.85 to not only nicest any porn any porn
49.109 addict needs the pornography the same
52.829 way that a drug addict needs a drug or
54.51 and colic needs a shot and so on and so
56.82 forth so there’s nothing different about
59.28 this and the question is generalized can
61.26 an addict quit an addiction and the
64.53 answer is yes of course
65.55 any addict can quit an addiction the
68.25 prognosis is not good with said division
70.08 is very high in the sense that an addict
72.12 that who quits an addiction usually has
74.91 remission or relapse and returns to the
77.46 addiction very common 80% of alcoholics
80.99 return to alcohol after they have quit
83.97 alcohol for example that’s 80% within
88.439 one year so porn addiction is the same
92.78 that English porn addiction is it it
96.619 it’s multi-dimensional it provides
101.34 answers to many problems and many
103.71 questions it provides fees it has a
106.2 physiological aspect but also a
108.479 psychological aspect and its source it
111.27 solves relationship problems for example
114.36 imagine that the the narcissus does not
117.21 want to cheat it’s afraid to lose his
120.09 partner the pawn is a solution so pawn
123.99 comes handy its instrumental and so the
127.25 chances or likelihood of a porn addict
131.84 ceasing to consume porn it’s very low
135.26 because porn has no stigma stigma helps
139.41 a lot and also porn doesn’t lead to
143.54 adverse
145.11 sequences if you get drunk you can end
148.35 up having unprotected sex with a
150.06 stranger and then you get sexually
153.09 transmitted disease and then you can die
155.37 if it’s AIDS I mean the risks are high
158.61 it’s a reckless behavior to drink drink
163.65 is also a social dimension most drinking
166.92 is social actually so people drink in
169.68 society so when they get drunk they can
171.54 do stupid things
172.35 if they do stupid things with the boss I
174.24 mean the next day they’re fired so
176.84 alcohol has can have serious
179.94 consequences and drug of drugs of course
181.89 you can end up with the wrong people
183.09 with the wrong place in the wrong
185.61 cemetery so these are problems a porn is
190.65 a solitary a solitary activity with zero
194.7 risk in effect only benefits so the cost
199.26 the cost of porn is zero
201.239 the benefits are total and this there is
204.93 no social stigma if you if you are an
208.739 alcoholic many people will look at you
210.39 like that if you’re a drug addict of
211.83 course including the police will not be
213.57 happy but if you are if you consume
216.33 about everyone consumes bone it’s the
217.86 thing everyone does it so the incentives
220.08 to give up porn are very close to zero
223.14 the social incentives individual
224.67 incentives and so the prognosis of
226.709 giving up on porn addiction are very dim
229.799 I don’t think it’s Cynthia no proxy
233.94 sonmanto Pastor Tom Miko’s Baron
235.89 artistic Osho cut culture Tom would mash
238.2 mash a sexuality Sheila Tate who saj
240.57 Hartmann Josh Ned vanish vanish hot wash
243.9 away Bini aru but often artistic Uche
246.39 nach Hause vidya Temecula Hartmann
248.73 Toshiba coos appear Mr Al toulebonne
250.739 Keala cool Akane’s Rishikesh a fugu chic
253.2 norm interceded by Mark como is Sarah
255.75 pet cop not now Lucas actual is debby on
257.76 geography et shack was extreme sexual
260.31 attachment Wadala BDSM erroneous shoe
263.52 byaku pro philia Azurill a caricature
266.61 otters airbase attack the pedophilia
268.97 epithelium your teenager a carvalho sex
271.83 a lot engineered homosexuality a swinger
275.31 she goes to bash sex
277.68 it is mush famine is a co poor set
280.71 sexist in Tatar Tosic quiche of care
283.229 does like mad coolin coolin ish has
284.639 accrued ocular allagash sexually so cash
287.16 accrual de de Guzman dare care Lockwood
289.71 who don’t forget Cecile at Quora first
293.46 of all thank you very much for the
294.72 arousing and exciting list I would like
297.479 to have a copy later if you don’t mind
301.039 it’s related to age because narcissism
304.38 changes with age
307.71 all narcissists and all narcissism has a
311.97 very pronounced antisocial component
316.07 kind of psychopathic component and say
319.68 copper thei this psychopathic component
322.56 has to do with novelty seeking dominance
326.009 seeking risk-taking defiance especially
331.71 defiance of authority and accepted
333.93 social mores and conventions laws and
341.15 this together they are the antisocial
344.34 dimension of narcissism
346.58 now exactly like psychopathy proper
349.32 exactly like antisocial personality
351.57 disorder the antisocial dimension of
353.849 narcissism Peaks is it a maximum when
358.289 the narcissist is between 35 and 40 and
361.639 after age 40 it goes down and vanishes
366.449 completely by age 45 50 by age 45 50 the
370.919 gnosis doesn’t have any more anti-social
373.5 elements in his narcissism and by the
376.56 way majority of psychopaths are not
378.63 psychopaths anymore by age 45 50 it’s
382.47 the same with borderline 50% of all
385.32 people diagnosed with borderline
386.52 personality disorder after age 35 50
390.24 they lose the diagnosis they are no
392.009 longer borderline Oh
393.419 cluster B person cluster B disorders
396.419 have a lifecycle which is age related
399.44 and they diminish and and literally
403.77 disappear after typically age 40 45
409.22 so this would explain this what you have
412.22 described behaviors which have to do
414.5 with risk with dominance with defiance
417.65 with aggression antisocial behaviors
423.64 behaviors which have to do with
425.33 subjugation of other people with the
427.55 humanization of rectification all these
430.01 behaviors which are essentially
430.97 psychopathic behaviors they would peak
433.16 in the 30s up to age 40 in the narcissus
436.94 no the thing with the narcissus is that
439.67 once he had developed this set of
441.38 behaviors they had become what we call
443.72 default based behaviors they are the
446.51 behaviors that he knows he doesn’t know
448.43 anything else and even though he doesn’t
451.1 have the impulses anymore he doesn’t
453.62 have the urges anymore that’s the only
456.26 thing he knows he’s only six that’s how
458.96 he does six he doesn’t know better so he
463.1 continues these behaviors but they
465.23 provide less and less reward they are
469.22 less less and less pleasant or less and
472.67 less rewarding because the urges are not
475.1 there he just does it automatically
477.29 because that’s what he does
478.43 it’s like someone who when he was very
480.8 young was hitting only caviar so when he
483.68 grows up eh on the caviar and gradually
485.96 it’s you know it’s not tasty anymore not
489.23 interesting anymore but he doesn’t know
491.09 he never heard of braids they never
492.5 heard of sausages he just knows coming
494.18 out so continue straight coming out all
495.83 his life it’s the same with the gnosis
497.77 so massagist after age 40 are what we
502.52 call sex discrepant their sexual
505.85 practices do not provide sexual pleasure
508.43 and gratification and fulfillment so
512.0 they because of that they escalate they
516.95 they’re like drug addicts first you take
519.08 one shot and two shots in six shots to
520.969 get the same effect so they escalate the
524.0 sexual behavior to try to recoup or
526.49 recapture the initial effect that they
529.31 had whenever thirties when when the
531.89 gnosis is thirty he has his first golden
534.41 shower and it’s the most amazing
536.14 stunning thing in the world and he
537.92 remembers this he remembers this
540.84 but then he’s 50 and he has a golden
542.76 shower and it’s nothing except wet
544.74 towels no and and he says wait a minute
547.08 maybe golden shower is not enough we
548.94 have to escalate and radicalize the
551.16 behavior maybe have to make it more
552.78 kinky maybe we have to make it many many
555.51 times maybe have to make it in a group
558.21 maybe so he tries to he tries to
560.55 improvise on the basic behavior he tries
563.43 to augment it he tries to embellish it
566.13 and decorate it and ornament it so that
569.49 it recaptures the original excitement
572.36 but he always fails so as he fails he
578.01 gravitates to more and more extreme
580.47 behaviors more extreme behaviors so if
583.32 he was into discipline for example in
585.33 his 30s so as a discipline in his
587.76 thirties a slap on the face would obtain
589.77 the result by the time he’s 50 or 60 he
592.89 would demand extreme whipping extreme
594.9 spanking blood drawing being hanged you
599.49 know shibungi he would he would we would
602.55 go to extremes it’s still the same cycle
605.55 dynamic phenomenon but he would need to
607.68 escalate to to exactly a drug addict to
610.47 recapture there and and it will never
612.69 happen again
613.53 he will never recapture again so
616.29 narcissistic constantly sexually
618.03 frustrated and and at the end of life
622.11 many of them withdraw completely they
624.96 become schizoid and they completely
626.49 withdraw from society from people from
628.26 sex from for everything because of this
630.89 anyhow that’s the age the age cycle
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